My father turns 60 on Saturday October 13th. My family of 4 would like to go to dinner in NYC, after taking a car from CT. So far we are considering Per Se, Eleven Madison park, and Le Bernadin. (My parents have been to Le Bernadin about 10 years ago). Does anyone have any feedback for a special occasion dinner ? Should we consider anything else. How hard will getting a reservation be? My parents also have a large format bottle of 1980 Chateau Margaux. We were thinking of bringing it with, but not sure if it would work with the menu, or the bumpy ride into the city.