Thanks so much for the update. Your post of a couple weeks ago regarding lost friends makes me want to remind everyone here to take care of your mental health and of those around you. One day we'll be able to look at this in the rear view mirror.
PM sent regarding my Doyle order from...
Here's a workaround that worked for me a couple years ago. I ordered a Vitamix blender shipped to a place in North Dakota for me to pick up. My billing address in Winnipeg was causing my credit card to be refused, much like you. What you need to do is create a fake billing address...