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I'll add, my parents gave me some good advice way back when. Don't go into marriage with assumptions about your partner ... make certain to talk things through ... lay it on the table ... know what you are getting into. On this note, a few years ago a good friend got divorced, and his wife said to me, "Don is too free-spirited. Even after we married, he never changed." I remember saying in return, "If you had an expectation of change, it would have been good to know whether or not there was the possibility of it being fulfilled before you got married. Did it never occur to you to ask?"
That ought to be required reading for anyone fixin' to get married.