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What do women actually look for?

Discussion in 'Social Life, Food & Drink, Travel' started by terminat, Sep 4, 2006.

  1. terminat

    terminat Active Member

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    Okay, I realise that this might not be the best place to ask this question (as I assume this is mostly a guy-dominated forum) but I was wondering on your personal opinions' on this. What do girls actually look for in men? I'm curious because I've heard so many conflicting views - if I ask any of my friends who are girls, they always say 'personality, cos women are deep.' Yet pick up any (and I mean any) mens' magazine and it will emphasise wealth - expensive watch, expensive car, expensive clothes etc, and looks. But does this only apply to shallow women, or most? Also, some people say 'bad boys' are what girls want, whilst other girls apparantly want clean-cut conformists. Some obvious things both can agree on - for example, sense of humour and confidence (and of course looks to some degree.) But apart from that, everyone seems to contradict each other. So, in your personal experience, what about you has made girls attracted to you? One of my friends also summed it up succinctly that 'men are attracted to looks, women to status' but is this true either? Another friend said that wealth wasn't important, only ambition (i.e. future wealth.) Sorry if this sounds like rambling [​IMG] but I was just curious (btw, i'm of course aware of the obvious personality traits like sense of humour, confidence etc.)
     
  2. VMan

    VMan Well-Known Member

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    Confidence, and someone who knows how to talk to them.

    My friend isn't very physically attractive, he's probably a 4 out of 10, and doesn't dress well or anything, and isn't in very good shape. However, he knows how to talk to girls and always pulls girls who are 8/10's or 9/10's because of this alone.
     
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    seanchai Well-Known Member

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    Confidence, and someone who knows how to talk to them.

    My friend isn't very physically attractive, he's probably a 4 out of 10, and doesn't dress well or anything, and isn't in very good shape. However, he knows how to talk to girls and always pulls girls who are 8/10's or 9/10's because of this alone.


    QFT
     
  4. Soph

    Soph Well-Known Member

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    It's all about looks for women:

    Chest and ass and penis size[​IMG]
     
  5. Reflection

    Reflection Active Member

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    Don't know about other girls... But I look for charisma, style, strengh (not physical), respect and intelligence.
    Outlook is very important for me too. I am a visual type and aesthetics means a lot to me.
     
  6. RicoItaliano

    RicoItaliano Well-Known Member

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    QFT

    Dark hair & eyes with a pension to be notty.

    I have found that expensive toys makes them nervous.
     
  7. Soph

    Soph Well-Known Member

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    Don't know about other girls... But I look for style, strengh (not physical), .


    --- I wear stylish gym shoes, and can bench 350 for reps, wanna go out?[​IMG]
     
  8. Reflection

    Reflection Active Member

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    --- I wear stylish gym shoes, and can bench 350 for reps, wanna go out?[​IMG]

    [​IMG][​IMG] [​IMG]
    You seem to be the guy from my dreams. [​IMG]
     
  9. Soph

    Soph Well-Known Member

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    Seriosuly,

    I think it depends on the girl, their level of beauty, their upbringing, and what they want out of life.

    A super hot girl, with an education, and from money will demand much more usually than a super hot girl without the previous.

    --Of couse, this is not always the case.

    However to put the odds in your favor:

    1. Workout- biceps, chest legs, girls love it all as long as its in the vain of Brad Pitt fight club and not Steroid Arnold

    2. Dress well for the ocassion. 1. clean 2. Fit 3. repaired 4. a sense of style

    A. Look good in jeans and a t shirt
    B. Look good in a trim jacket/suit/tux

    3. Drive a cool car, preferrably foreign

    4. Have a career that either/or makes alot of money or of high social status

    5. Be born goodlooking[​IMG]

    6. Be well groomed and good teeth

    7. Be assertive yet sensitive depending on the situtation

    8. Be well educated on diverse subjects such is why Style forum Rocks! ---Label King sounds like a guy who has an incredible amount of knowledge in various subjects that could impress/fascinate women for days on end.

    9. Money is very important as it pays for the dinners, drinks, vacations (women in general love to travel) etc.

    10. Be romantic on and off

    11. stay away from them for days at a time even if you would lick their toes

    12. Always have the attitude and confidence that you are the man and not just another man. Self Confidence.

    13. Lastly, get them drunk on champagne and Have a good attorney if you want to marry them[​IMG]
     
  10. Soph

    Soph Well-Known Member

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    [​IMG][​IMG] [​IMG]
    You seem to be the guy from my dreams. [​IMG]



    --- You have such an energy about you, wanna make out first and see if we like each other[​IMG]
     
  11. RicoItaliano

    RicoItaliano Well-Known Member

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    Seriosuly,

    13. Lastly, get them drunk on champagne and Have a good attorney if you want to marry them[​IMG]


    Champagne yes, marriage no. [​IMG]
     
  12. Reflection

    Reflection Active Member

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    --- You have such an energy about you, wanna make out first and see if we like each other[​IMG]
    [​IMG]

    Btw, I love your description of a perfect man.[​IMG]
    I hope it is not just a theory... [​IMG]
     
  13. GQgeek

    GQgeek Well-Known Member

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    Seriosuly,
    13. Lastly, get them drunk on champagne and Have a good attorney if you want to marry them[​IMG]


    Possibly your best advice ever :p
     
  14. Soph

    Soph Well-Known Member

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    [​IMG]

    Btw, I love your description of a perfect man.[​IMG]
    I hope it is not just a theory... [​IMG]


    --- I try to practice what I preach[​IMG]
     
  15. visionology

    visionology Well-Known Member

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    On a serious note it depends where you are.

    The good friends that I have that are girls as well as my ex's seem to enjoy that I have a good sense of humor, that I can hold a conversation well and I like to talk, that I have ambitions and a sense of direction, that I listen to what they say and respond to them, that I like to go and do things, trips, go dancing, etc.

    Girls that you see in a club are purely physical as am I in that situation. From the ass grabs and chest pinches I've received in clubs I am assuming girls like asses, fit chest and abs, and a nice face. Dancing can be a huge turnon in this situation as well. Usually when you go to a club you see the guys that can't dance around the edges and then the guys that can dance hit the middle and pick up the women.

    So far I've found that money means very little in real relationships, sure it is nice to have a load of cash but its not the dealbreaker. I've also found that often looks may seem important but fall further down the line as you get more serious. I like my girl to be fit and trim but I overlook imperfections that I otherwise when going to just a club wouldn't overlook, and likewise.
     
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    bachbeet Well-Known Member

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    Well, I kept it simple after my divorce. I wanted a woman who loved me and who I loved. And, that's what I got.
     
  17. j

    j Well-Known Member

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    5. Be born goodlooking[​IMG]

    If only someone had told me this 28 years ago.. [​IMG]
     
  18. Reflection

    Reflection Active Member

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    --- I try to practice what I preach[​IMG]

    It's nice to hear that. [​IMG]
     
  19. terminat

    terminat Active Member

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    interesting replies [​IMG] keep 'em coming!

    Another thing I was wondering about - where have you found the best place to actually meet women is? I personally have found nightclubs and concerts to not be that productive (everyone's too focused on the music/dancing) whereas tennis clubs and gyms have so far proven to be figurative goldmines [​IMG] What's your guys opinion on this?
     
  20. ATM

    ATM Well-Known Member

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    My theory is simple. Evolution compels them to desire an alpha male. Any characteristics they find attractive can be thought of as traits typically possessed by alpha males.
     

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