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The 27 Year Old Virgin

Discussion in 'Social Life, Food & Drink, Travel' started by amathew, May 13, 2012.

  1. texas_jack

    texas_jack Well-Known Member

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    Join Meetup.com and go to events. Don't go to meet chicks, go to meet people and learn how to socialize with the opposite sex. Many women even if they don't find you attractive if they are around you enough will come to see your best parts and that is the most natural way to meet women. There are lots of fun things to do in those groups like: kickball, going to shows, cookouts, you name it. But you have to put effort into it. As you've found in your career choice you aren't going to be around enough women to "just let it happen", you're going to have to work at it.
     
  2. Joffrey

    Joffrey Well-Known Member

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    I second focusing on widening your social network. You will meet more people and by extension more women. Make friends and learn how to talk to them without any attempts to ask them out. You widen your social network (maybe make some female friends) and you will have more opportunities to meet women.
     
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    buy a huge sack of coke and put yourself in a party situation. Since you're in Denver and the Nuggets season is over you're home free. Attractive women will flock to you and you will use this as if you were bartering for the last resources on earth.
     
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  5. ter1413

    ter1413 Well-Known Member

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    or just try men.....
     
  6. de Seingalt

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    without putting too fine a point on it, you won't meet a ton of hot chicks on styleforum...:)
     
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  7. Neo_Version 7

    Neo_Version 7 Well-Known Member

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    Three words: Lower. Your. Standards.
     
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  8. Superfluous Man

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    Apparently you haven't seen Brad-T :inlove:
     
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  9. Trompe le Monde

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    pretty sure-fire recipe, maybe the surest of all in the thread.
     
  10. scarphe

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    still a 3 way with 2 hookers would be cheaper
     
  11. amathew

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    Since starting this thread, nothing has changed, and I haven't honestly made an attempt at meeting women. I
    am straight edge, so I tend to avoid clubs and bars, which makes it even harder. And I always find it hard to approach women at coffee shops because people there seem busy and aren't necessarily looking to be hit
    on. And then there are meetup.com groups, which I think are great for 40 year olds who are newly single or
    just looking to interact with other, but not so much for guys who are mid-20's, single, straight edge, and quite nerdy.
     
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  12. texas_jack

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    Hmm, I met lots of women in it when I was in my 20s (I'm 34 now). Maybe it's not popular in there.
     
  13. scarphe

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    ok so no hookers, what are your hobbies?
     
  14. Superfluous Man

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    By removing bars/clubs from your life you filter out one of, if not the most common place for 20-somethings to congregate outside of work. Straight edge is bullshit, anyhow. You're an adult.
     
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    These two together. You might end up with Neo. Or de Seingalt. Both, if not gorgeous, at least distinguished looking.
     
  16. amathew

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    My hobbies are powerlifting, computers, statistics (I'll often get home from work and analyze fun data, and blog about it). I also
    like fashion, eating out, and have recently gotten into cooking.
     
  17. texas_jack

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    You're muslim, right?
     
  18. LA Guy

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    fwiw, women are always receptive, to the right guy. A non-comprehensive list of places where it's easy to talk to women (if a particular woman doesn't want to talk, just move on. It's not like you're married to her:)

    The street (seriously, all hooker jokes aside)
    The gym
    In line for coffee
    That little table where the milk and cream is at, at the coffee place
    The Apple Store
    Any outdoor cafe (actually, come to think of it, this is the place where most women have approached me)
    The bus (come to think of it, this is where I've gotten the most passes from what must have been gay men)
    Airplanes (only works if you are actually both going to the same final destination)
    The front desk of a hotel
    Fashion event (point at a guy and say "He looks sorta douchey, doesn't he?")
    In line for a late night taco (although, seeing that you don't go out, it would be sort of artificial)
    At a farmer's market (caress the baguette.)
    A wedding
    A bookstore
    A library

    Also, don't be straight edge. It's cool to not want to go to bars and clubs. It's cool to not drink, if that's not your thing. But it's not cool to adhere to some code based off a Minor Threat song.
     
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  19. amathew

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    I'm christian.
     
  20. texas_jack

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    So what's your excuse for being straight edge?

    Have you tried meeting chicks at church? That's a demographic with easy picking for a religious guy.
     

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