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Really F'd Up Question

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by AnonymousEsq, Jan 30, 2012.

  1. AnonymousEsq

    AnonymousEsq Member

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    Made up my mind. Thanks for the advice guys. I truly appreciate it.
     
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  2. Neo_Version 7

    Neo_Version 7 Well-Known Member

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    In my experience, you're going to need a lot more than an email thread if "fireworks" are what you are craving. A photo of them doing something salacious ought to do the trick.
     
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  3. AnonymousEsq

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    I don't know that I can (or would care to) burst into a hotel room with my camera. But the e-mails are fairly explicit about sneaking around and not getting caught. Realistically they could only be more damning if they had pictures attached.
     
  4. MrG

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    You're so edgy and badass, brah.
     
  5. AnonymousEsq

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    Trust me. I'm neither. If my post came across as trying to by edgy or badass, that was not my intention.
     
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  6. fuji

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    "He's a weird cat but is kind of the rainmaker for the company"

    I loled. Super cool story bro.
     
  7. Neo_Version 7

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    I'm not saying to go full-on Cheaters. What I'm saying is, emails won't be enough. That's circumstantial at best.
     
  8. AnonymousEsq

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    Ok. That's a good point. I really hadn't considered that.
     
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    Never underestimate the desire of a wife to pretend nothing is happening. Besides, you said they have a weird relationship maybe she 's okay with it. If you want to fuck up a relationship, email the girl's fiancé, he will certainly believe it
     
  10. AnonymousEsq

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    That's another good point. They might have an open relationship for all I know. I figured there would be less trust since it appeared that the marriage was on the rocks at one point. I had debated between the wife, the fiance or both. I figure if I send it to the wife, everyone might think the fiance did it.
     
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    Fuck them! DO THAT SHIT! :slayer:
     
  12. AnonymousEsq

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    While that was certainly my first reaction, I don't really understand why. I don't have anything to gain and if I get caught (although unlikely) it would be more than a little awkward.
     
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  13. Douglas

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    Why? What's the point? I don't think it would make you feel any better.

    If you want to do something, the something you should be doing is putting together a resume and getting the fuck out of this hellhole.
     
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  14. Dakota rube

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    Yes.
    This.
     
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    You want to do this because you're annoyed she's banging him on the side, not banging you on the side. Yes?
     
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    You're setting yourself up to be a bit player in a scene from the Jerry Springer Show. Is that really what you aspire to?
     
  17. AnonymousEsq

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    On some level, I'm certain you're right. Obviously if I think about it logically, I dodged a bullet by her dumping me. I wouldn't want to be in the fiance's shoes. (And I recognize the irony of talking about her moral fiber in a thread in which I've admitted to doing unethical things and am considering doing more.) On some level I think it's about punishing F too. The dude was not very nice to me when I first started (He's warmed up to me since then). And I got fucked over for a raise this year.

    I keep hearing this and it really is the best advice.
     
  18. AnonymousEsq

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    On some level certainly. Logically I can see that I dodged a bullet by her dumping me. The fiance is in a bad spot. On some level it's about F. He was really mean to me when I started work (I think he's warmed up to me since then).


    I keep hearing this and it is truly very good advice.
     
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    +2
     
  20. Wolfador

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    Good for him. Unless you want a threesome between the two, stay out of it.
     

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