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Messed up and slept with a colleague...

Discussion in 'Social Life, Food & Drink, Travel' started by Flambeur, Jan 17, 2010.

  1. texas_jack

    texas_jack Well-Known Member

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    Found out tonight I was right, she wanted more. I have told her that while I enjoy working with her, my policy is to not get involved with coworkers. Hopefully everything is cool Monday.

    ha ha, I love the fact that getting involved doesn't include sticking your dick into her vagina.
     
  2. SpooPoker

    SpooPoker Well-Known Member

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    how did you tell her that you have to find out on Monday? text? email?
     
  3. oldseed

    oldseed Well-Known Member

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    no pix. it didn't happen.
     
  4. Rambo

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    ha ha, I love the fact that getting involved doesn't include sticking your dick into her vagina.
    [​IMG] Post pics of black eye once received.
     
  5. KeatonCollar

    KeatonCollar Well-Known Member

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    Found out tonight I was right, she wanted more. I have told her that while I enjoy working with her, my policy is to not get involved with coworkers. Hopefully everything is cool Monday.

    Please tell us that you didn't use the word "policy" with her.

    Best way out of it is to avoid all interactions with her outside the workplace by appearing busy.

    OR tell her that you are actually...

    [​IMG]
     
  6. robbz9206

    robbz9206 Well-Known Member

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    no. the best way out of it is to fade away like george bush did
     
  7. ohm

    ohm Well-Known Member

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    The best way is to have your romantic interlude occur with someone prettier.
     
  8. Flambeur

    Flambeur Well-Known Member

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    Well since everyone has been asking for an update, I am still with her.. Yeah, I know, crazy. Still don't know about the long-term potential for unrelated reasons (career moves, potentially different paths for me and her, etc)

    But yeah, she is pretty awesome and more importantly, sex with her is mindblowing.. I just can't walk away, it's worse than any drug. [​IMG]
     
  9. Rambo

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    Well since everyone has been asking for an update, I am still with her.. Yeah, I know, crazy. Still don't know about the long-term potential for unrelated reasons (career moves, potentially different paths for me and her, etc) But yeah, she is pretty awesome and more importantly, sex with her is mindblowing.. I just can't walk away, it's worse than any drug. [​IMG]
    Why on god's green earth would you want to walk away from that??????? Drug addicts really do have the right idea.
     
  10. Nantucket Red

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    But yeah, she is pretty awesome and more importantly, sex with her is mindblowing.. I just can't walk away, it's better than any drug. [​IMG]

    FIFY [​IMG]
     
  11. unjung

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    Flambeur, update please.

    As for me, there are occasional references from her via text or email. Recently while I was on the road for business she sent me an email indicating that another co-worker wants to set me up with a friend... I responded something to the effect of not trusting that co-worker's taste, and the girl said she didn't want to continue the conversation. [​IMG]
     
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    Flambeur, update please.

    As for me, there are occasional references from her via text or email. Recently while I was on the road for business she sent me an email indicating that another co-worker wants to set me up with a friend... I responded something to the effect of not trusting that co-worker's taste, and the girl said she didn't want to continue the conversation. [​IMG]


    mmmmm.. think she was testing you there Flambeur - "r u interested in other women, or ME". if that's true then your response probably disillusioned her. she been cold since that?
    y'now around 30 per cent of us meet future spouses at work. I did, it's not a bad thing.
     
  13. Flambeur

    Flambeur Well-Known Member

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    mmmmm.. think she was testing you there Flambeur - "r u interested in other women, or ME". if that's true then your response probably disillusioned her. she been cold since that?
    y'now around 30 per cent of us meet future spouses at work. I did, it's not a bad thing.


    that was not me but a different poster.
     
  14. Flambeur

    Flambeur Well-Known Member

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    As far as my chick.. Well.. We got really close, had some really good times, but she is getting a bit unstable with other stuff in her life, and I am working through a period where I have to dedicate myself 100% to getting things done, so it doesn't look so well right now.

    She's a great girl, still best sex ever, but I just don't see her as the one despite the fact that she's one of the closest ones to that..

    Ugh.

    I'm just going to end up a dirty old man.
     
  15. Dakota rube

    Dakota rube Well-Known Member

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    I'm just going to end up a dirty old man.

    It actually isn't a bad gig.
     
  16. rickimky

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    Lucky. I wish I had hot colleagues. [​IMG]
     

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