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Looking at penises in the locker room.

Discussion in 'Health & Body' started by Don Carlos, Jan 6, 2011.

  1. Don Carlos

    Don Carlos Well-Known Member

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    I think only in America, dudes have this insecurity problem or are afraid of the gays. I don't really give a crap. I take my shower, dress, and leave. If I see a naked dude, I see a naked dude.

    +1

    Who gives a shit if a bunch of dudes see your cack? Or if a gay dude sees your cack? Extreme homophobes, who live in constant paranoia about whose penises they might see and who might see theirs, are probably working out some latent issues themselves.

    Frankly, even in the one-in-a-million chance that some gay guy compliments my naked body in the locker room, I'd be flattered.
     
  2. Don Carlos

    Don Carlos Well-Known Member

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    I think only in America, dudes have this insecurity problem or are afraid of the gays. I don't really give a crap. I take my shower, dress, and leave. If I see a naked dude, I see a naked dude.

    +1

    Who gives a shit if a bunch of dudes see your cack? Or if a gay dude sees your cack? Extreme homophobes, who live in constant paranoia about whose penises they might see and who might see theirs, are probably working out some latent issues themselves.

    Frankly, even in the one-in-a-million chance that some gay guy compliments my naked body in the locker room, I'd be flattered. I've been hit on by plenty of dudes in the course of my life, and I take it as a compliment. They have higher standards than drunk chicks do, so in a way, I'm more flattered to be hit on by the former than by the latter.
     
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    ...I'd be flattered. I've been hit on by plenty of dudes in the course of my life, and I take it as a compliment. They have higher standards than drunk chicks do, so in a way, I'm more flattered to be hit on by the former than by the latter.

    +1000

    Gay guys are generally way more picky. Unless they are into bears...
     
  4. rach2jlc

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    What this thread needs is a picture of teh Ronahlllldo! Don't tell me you girls wouldn't take a peek...

    [​IMG]
     
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    People who feel uncomfortable in the locker rooms have some severe mental problems.
     
  7. LabelKing

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    I've only once been in a locker room with naked men and that was because I was taking a tour of an historical men's club that was still in operation.

    Incidentally, I found the situation rather uncomfortable although I've no problem with nudity for "entertainment purposes" at nightclubs and discotheques.
     
  8. SField

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    O god I now remember once when I was in a Japanese spa. Maaaan did I get looked at in there. My blondish pubes and white penis were stared at.. and I was also much taller than most of them. I even was asked by some medical student about circumcision, in very fobby english.

    That was surreal but very funny. My two japanese friends were laughing about the entire experience. I don't think I've ever been the center of attention like that in my entire life.
     
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    What this thread needs is a picture of teh Ronahlllldo! Don't tell me you girls wouldn't take a peek...

    [​IMG]



    Peeked grrrrl! Mmmhm.
     
  10. rach2jlc

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    the belt buckle [​IMG]

    [​IMG] I know; isn't it awful? And those MOSCHINO JEANS... yikes!
     
  11. TowleY

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    The worst part is having a coversation with people in the locker room.
    Oh did I mention that you are fully clothed while he is completly naked?
     
  12. greg_atlanta

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    I think it's fun to observe current trends in pubic hair styling. Who's got a bush, who shaves, who has a precious porn-star 'stache going on, etc.

    As a white man I know the flesh itself has its impressive moments and its not so impressive moments... like after doing cardio for an hour (wants to crawl back in its cave).
     
  13. CunningSmeagol

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    +1

    Who gives a shit if a bunch of dudes see your cack? Or if a gay dude sees your cack? Extreme homophobes, who live in constant paranoia about whose penises they might see and who might see theirs, are probably working out some latent issues themselves.

    Frankly, even in the one-in-a-million chance that some gay guy compliments my naked body in the locker room, I'd be flattered.


    I've only ever had gay men hit on me, never women. Like, not once in my entire life has a woman ever come up to me and started a conversation. Gay men, all the time - I don't think they are more selective.
     
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    I've only ever had gay men hit on me, never women. Like, not once in my entire life has a woman ever come up to me and started a conversation. Gay men, all the time - I don't think they are more selective.

    You just have that glint in your eye.
     
  15. Don Carlos

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    O god I now remember once when I was in a Japanese spa. Maaaan did I get looked at in there. My blondish pubes and white penis were stared at.. and I was also much taller than most of them. I even was asked by some medical student about circumcision, in very fobby english.

    That was surreal but very funny. My two japanese friends were laughing about the entire experience. I don't think I've ever been the center of attention like that in my entire life.


    I had a similar experience at a rural onsen, although minus the blond pubes. But being a tall white guy who is extremely manscaped, I stuck out like a sore thumb. Two things I noticed about the penises I saw: 1) the stereotypes seem mostly true, and 2) Japanese dudes have never heard of grooming their pubes. We're talking wild and wooly bushes so dense you could hardly see a willy within them.
     
  16. Don Carlos

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    I've only ever had gay men hit on me, never women. Like, not once in my entire life has a woman ever come up to me and started a conversation. Gay men, all the time - I don't think they are more selective.

    Sorry to hear that, brah. [​IMG] I wold consider myself a very attractive guy, but not anywhere near Brad Pitt territory or anything. If I lifted more and bulked up a bit, I could probably get to a strong 9. As is, I would call myself a low to mid 8.

    At any rate, I get approached and even outright hit on by chicks all the time. There are also times when I don't, of course, but the determining factor seems to b whether I am in a good mood or not. Smiling and looking like a friendly, outgoing person gets me practically mauled by trim. Being standoffish or sour gets me avoided. I say this because I vascillate between the two moods on any given day, and I wear my emotions on my sleeve. Not sure if you're the same way.
     
  17. tagutcow

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    At any rate, I get approached and even outright hit on by chicks all the time. There are also times when I don't, of course, but the determining factor seems to b whether I am in a good mood or not. Smiling and looking like a friendly, outgoing person gets me practically mauled by trim. Being standoffish or sour gets me avoided. I say this because I vascillate between the two moods on any given day, and I wear my emotions on my sleeve. Not sure if you're the same way.
    Funny, I used to get hit on/approached by women all the time (well, maybe like twice a month, which is a lot considering how little I actually get out of the house) but as I've started working out and dressing better (latter point debatable: check SW&D WAYWT) my number of unsolicited approaches has winnowed, yet I'm sure I look better now than I've ever looked. I'm not going to try to draw a causal relation between the two, though. I know I've come to depend too much on playing pool as a social crutch, which I'm sure distances me from women. Also, I'm sure hanging around the same places for years on end hasn't helped; I've probably developed a reputation as the creepy social retard guy among regulars (many of whom I wouldn't recognize by their faces, never mind know by their names.) Also, my mood has most definitely soured over the last few years. I feel like anger and loneliness are destroying me from the inside-out, yet it's not something I talk about to casual acquaintances (which are the only acquaintances I have) and it's something I try to keep at arm's length when I go out somewhere. Maybe this is somehow conveyed in my demeanor/body language, subliminally alienating people, and it's my loneliness that's keeping me lonely. But yeah, I'm kind of dependant on women- well, anyone really- to appraoch me and start a conversation, since I don't have the social skills to initiate and sustain a conversation myself. Even when I think about friendships I've had in my life, they all started with someone approaching me first. The only two times I have been explicitly sexually propositioned by a complete stranger have both been by gay guys, and these sexual propositions occured- strangely enough- on two successive days.
     
  18. gort

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    So start hanging out somewhere new?
     
  19. Father Flanagan

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    So we all do it, right? Am I right?
    Oh my! We try never to do that especially these days where a handful of perverted priests have given us all a bad reputation.
     
  20. CunningSmeagol

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    Sorry to hear that, brah. [​IMG] I wold consider myself a very attractive guy, but not anywhere near Brad Pitt territory or anything. If I lifted more and bulked up a bit, I could probably get to a strong 9. As is, I would call myself a low to mid 8.

    At any rate, I get approached and even outright hit on by chicks all the time. There are also times when I don't, of course, but the determining factor seems to b whether I am in a good mood or not. Smiling and looking like a friendly, outgoing person gets me practically mauled by trim. Being standoffish or sour gets me avoided. I say this because I vascillate between the two moods on any given day, and I wear my emotions on my sleeve. Not sure if you're the same way.


    [​IMG]

    well, that and I usually have my gf with me when I'm out and about. But gay guys really don't seem to care. Still, I find the attention flattering and not at all threatening.
     

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