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How to tell when two people in the office are sleeping together?

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by HitMan009, May 17, 2010.

  1. HitMan009

    HitMan009 Well-Known Member

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    How does one tell if two people in the office are sleeping with each other and cheating on the spouse. I know there has to be clear signs. I have this gut feeling but I can't prove it. What are the clues?
     
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    It's none of your business.
     
  3. ter1413

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    -They come in at the same time every day!
     
  4. Harold falcon

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    Break into their email accounts and read their private correspondence. Then check the trash cans outside their respective houses. Best bet is to secretly install video surveillance cameras at work, in their homes, and in all local motel rooms, it's the only way to be sure.
     
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    They both seem happy?
     
  6. HitMan009

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    It's none of your business.
    On most occasions, I couldn't give two shits even if they were fucking in front of me. But this time, it's different because I know both of them on a personal level and I know his wife. She's away right now.
     
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    On most occasions, I couldn't give two shits even if they were fucking in front of me. But this time, it's different because I know both of them on a personal level and I know his wife. She's away right now.

    So why not ask the guy!
     
  8. why

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    How does one tell if two people in the office are sleeping with each other and cheating on the spouse. I know there has to be clear signs. I have this gut feeling but I can't prove it. What are the clues?

    Cum coito interrupto medio
     
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    It's none of your business.

    +1
     
  10. ter1413

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    If you are nosy becasue you know the 2 parties and know the guy's wife, ask him. If not, mind you business(unless the guy's wife is your sister!)
     
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    All finding out will do is put you in a shitty position that will eventually lead to both the guy and his wife hating you, and potentially have negative repercussions for you at the workplace.
     
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    "Confide" in the guy that you slept with the other woman a while ago knowing you had herpes and now you are wondering if you should tell her. Watch hilarity ensue.
     
  13. HitMan009

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    "Confide" in the guy that you slept with the other woman a while ago knowing you had herpes and now you are wondering if you should tell her. Watch hilarity ensue.

    Nice!

    Yes, I will leave this alone because as everyone knows, nothing good can come out of this. But it's still good to know the signs. That was the intent of the thread, not to call them out. What they decide to do is their own business!
     
  14. Don Carlos

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    I can't foresee a scenario where your delving into this, let alone attempting to do something about it, will end well for you or them. Just let it go. That said, how can you tell? In my experience, it's been pretty easy to tell when two co-workers are sleeping together. They always hang out, to the point where it seems like they are joined at the hip. They have private in-jokes with one another that nobody else in the office gets. They don't work in the same department, and yet, they're always finding excuses to drop by each other's offices or cubes. At social outings, they always show up or leave together, and/or they spend the whole time in each other's company. Even in groups, their banter with one another is cutesy and flirtatious. Etc. The old rule of thumb states that if two people seem like they're sleeping together, they usually are (or soon will be). People are notoriously bad at hiding their affections, especially when the relationship is new.
     
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    I can't foresee a scenario where your delving into this, let alone attempting to do something about it, will end well for you or them. Just let it go.

    That said, how can you tell? In my experience, it's been pretty easy to tell when two co-workers are sleeping together. They always hang out, to the point where it seems like they are joined at the hip. They have private in-jokes with one another that nobody else in the office gets. They don't work in the same department, and yet, they're always finding excuses to drop by each other's offices or cubes. At social outings, they always show up or leave together, and/or they spend the whole time in each other's company. Even in groups, their banter with one another is cutesy and flirtatious. Etc.

    The old rule of thumb states that if two people seem like they're sleeping together, they usually are (or soon will be). People are notoriously bad at hiding their affections, especially when the relationship is new.


    I can see this being generally true, but it's news to me that I'm sleeping with my best friend here at work...[​IMG]
     
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    Look for the gentleman's Johnson. If it is all up in her hooey, they are sleeping together.
     
  18. whiteslashasian

    whiteslashasian Well-Known Member

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    See: http://www.styleforum.net/showthread.php?t=180787

    Nice[​IMG]

    I guess I forgot to mention my best friend at work is a female so I deserved that. But seriously, we just have a lot of things in common and get along very well. If we weren't co-workers I would probably date her in a heartbeat (assuming I wasn't already in a relationship).

    I have experienced that leaving work related events and happy hours together is a decent indicator; I had a birthday party HH and 2 co-workers left together; I later found out that they had been dating secretly.
     
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    Sometimes you can notice the way they look at each other in a very loving sort of way.
     
  20. ter1413

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    Listen to my song. It will tell you if they are sleeping togetha.



    Stop spamming ur shit video!
     

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