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Does porn ruin your sex life?

Discussion in 'Health & Body' started by breakfasteatre, Jan 2, 2011.

  1. thekunk07

    thekunk07 Well-Known Member

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    I feel like that chick that solved that wheel of fortune puzzle with only one letter on the board. I know the answer, I know the answer [​IMG] [​IMG]

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  2. Eason

    Eason Well-Known Member

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    Lulz really!? What kind of porn are you watching with them? Midget foot porn?

    Totally bland regular porn. I don't know, it was just totally unstimulating.
     
  3. tomgirl

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    Totally bland regular porn. I don't know, it was just totally unstimulating.

    [​IMG]
     
  4. CBrown85

    CBrown85 Well-Known Member

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    sometimes when we're doing it i say porney things.
     
  5. RSS

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    porn just makes you expect that a lot of abnormal stuff should be par for the course
    It isn't par for the course? This is news to me.
     
  6. RedScarf7

    RedScarf7 Well-Known Member

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    Totally bland regular porn. I don't know, it was just totally unstimulating.

    Weird. I've had the opposite experience with the gfs I've watched porn with.
     
  7. willpower

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    if im having any sort of doubts at this stage, would that be a pretty good indication that things are through?
    If you're finding any excuse to not have sex with her, then you need to evaluate what's going on. Relationships create stress, sex releases it. That means - A) you're no longer emotionally involved in this relationship so there's no drive to release the tension B) You're addicted to the fantasy world of porn and the real thing is no longer stimulating enough. C) You're afraid of being close and vulnerable with someone. If you did know what was going on, what do you think the problem is?
     
  8. East2West

    East2West Well-Known Member

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    sometimes when we're doing it i say porney things.

    Give us some examples please
     
  9. Sesame Seed

    Sesame Seed Well-Known Member

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    One girl rolled off the bed like I was about to pour acid onto her the first time I was going to blow on her...
    Seriously, I've seen that lots in porn, too. Don't get me started on the gents avoiding the fem juice. They're paid, so you'd think they could enjoy themselves FFS.
     
  10. texas_jack

    texas_jack Well-Known Member

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    No, more likely you're gay.
     
  11. SField

    SField Well-Known Member

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    I only watch amateur "porn".

    Don't know how people could even watch professional stuff.
     
  12. aj_del

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    porn just makes you expect that a lot of abnormal stuff should be par for the course

    +100
     
  13. tagutcow

    tagutcow Well-Known Member

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    How can porn ruin my sex life? Porn is my sex life.
     
  14. justsayno

    justsayno Well-Known Member

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    lol
    How can porn ruin my sex life? Porn is my sex life.
     
  15. alliswell

    alliswell Well-Known Member

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    How can porn ruin my sex life? Porn is my sex life.

    14 minutes late to the only good joke. FML for reading all the old posts.
     
  16. origenesprit

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    I only watch amateur "porn".

    Don't know how people could even watch professional stuff.


    Like, actual amateur or fake amateur? I mean, third person cameraman stuff still counts, right?
     
  17. ruben

    ruben Well-Known Member

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    Sex is the barometer in a relationship. Are you sure this relationship hasn't run it's course?

    Interesting thoughts, though I know a number of people in healthy, fairly sexless relationships, but they seem off.
     
  18. acidboy

    acidboy Well-Known Member

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    I try to use porn to better my sex life, but then again I'm not a total prude and know that imagination and reality are different. [​IMG]

    prudes are the ones that end up doing the weird shit imo

    This is just awkward, don't do it.

    there are subtle ways to initiate it, if you want to that is. easiest would be talking/discussing porn and see if she's curious enough to watch with you.

    Totally bland regular porn. I don't know, it was just totally unstimulating.

    you know whats unstimulating, that (fake) sticky saliva they use to slather up the penor so when the girl gives head, there's like clear slimy goo all over.

    that, and money shots and the tragedy of a limp dick in mid-action.

    How can porn ruin my sex life? Porn is my sex life.

    [​IMG]

    Interesting thoughts, though I know a number of people in healthy, fairly sexless relationships, but they seem off.

    its called "friendship"
     
  19. SField

    SField Well-Known Member

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    Like, actual amateur or fake amateur? I mean, third person cameraman stuff still counts, right?

    no. Stuff people make themselves. Sex without some kind of emotion behind it is useless and not at all erotic.
     
  20. gort

    gort Well-Known Member

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    Do you exercise a lot? Are you depressed?
     

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