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Does porn ruin your sex life?

Discussion in 'Health & Body' started by breakfasteatre, Jan 2, 2011.

  1. breakfasteatre

    breakfasteatre Well-Known Member

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    Been in a relationship for 5 years, and personally ive had no sex drive for most of it

    i find myself looking at porn generally not because i want to beat off, but more because im bored.

    but i check out porn quite a bit in my spare time on the computer.

    what are your thoughts?
     
  2. APK

    APK Well-Known Member

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    Too much of it could subconsciously increase your dissatisfaction with your sex life if you're in a committed relationship. You run the risk of bedroom stagnation in such relationships even without outside influences. The fantasy experience most porn grants access can accentuate the monotony that characterizes the sex lives of long-time partners.

    Personally, my sex life has been more fulfilling when the porn viewing is limited or even eliminated (usually only happens at the beginning of the relationship when things are still fresh).

    Also, haven't you voiced a concern with your girlfriend's appearance/weight before? That's going to play a role in how frisky you're feeling.
     
  3. breakfasteatre

    breakfasteatre Well-Known Member

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    Also, haven't you voiced a concern with your girlfriend's appearance/weight before? That's going to play a role in how frisky you're feeling.

    I have, didnt go too well

    but she makes an effort now. She truly is beautiful and im a lucky guy to have such an attractive girlfriend.
    She looks better than ever now, but my weiner stays stagnant
     
  4. thekunk07

    thekunk07 Well-Known Member

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    porn just makes you expect that a lot of abnormal stuff should be par for the course
     
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    musicguy Well-Known Member

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    Been in a relationship for 5 years, and personally ive had no sex drive for most of it i find myself looking at porn generally not because i want to beat off, but more because im bored. but i check out porn quite a bit in my spare time on the computer. what are your thoughts?
    Low testosterone levels? Too much masturbating? Bored with your girl?
     
  6. RedScarf7

    RedScarf7 Well-Known Member

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    Start watching porn with your gf, imo.
     
  7. willpower

    willpower Well-Known Member

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    Sex is the barometer in a relationship. Are you sure this relationship hasn't run it's course?
     
  8. breakfasteatre

    breakfasteatre Well-Known Member

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    if im having any sort of doubts at this stage, would that be a pretty good indication that things are through?
     
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    Lord who knows. As for the porn, "ruins" is probably too strong a word, but it does take something away from it. But I'm not gonna stop watching it so I try not to worry about it.
     
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    porn just makes you expect that a lot of abnormal stuff should be par for the course
    This is what I was trying to say in my first post. Some girls ARE prudes, but there are also the ones who do the standard stuff, which is boring, tame shit by porn standards.
     
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    I try to use porn to better my sex life, but then again I'm not a total prude and know that imagination and reality are different. [​IMG]
     
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    Start watching porn with your gf, imo.

    This is just awkward, don't do it.
     
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    [​IMG] It should be noted that I really can't speak to the actual question, as I don't have all that much of a sex life at the moment. [​IMG]
     
  14. breakfasteatre

    breakfasteatre Well-Known Member

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    This is just awkward, don't do it.

    'this is my favorite site, this is my favorite video' rofl
     
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    This is just awkward, don't do it.

    Eg, it can work under certain circumstances. My wife likes to watch porn with me.
     
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    How many of your gf's would hit the road if they saw the porn you like to watch. [​IMG]
     
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    thekunk07 Well-Known Member

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    dude that image is an insult, that is the great dorian yates asshole!

    [​IMG]

    It should be noted that I really can't speak to the actual question, as I don't have all that much of a sex life at the moment. [​IMG]
     
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    This is just awkward, don't do it.

    Lulz really!? What kind of porn are you watching with them? Midget foot porn?
     
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    She looks better than ever now, but my weiner stays stagnant


    I feel like that chick that solved that wheel of fortune puzzle with only one letter on the board. I know the answer, I know the answer [​IMG] [​IMG]
     
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