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Dating a girl with a boyfriend

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by TeeKay, Jul 5, 2011.

  1. Rosenberg

    Rosenberg Well-Known Member

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    rationalizing is a great first step on the way to doing something you know to be wrong

    Yep. It's one thing if you genuinely "didn't know" about the situation, but you obviously do.
     
  2. CouttsClient

    CouttsClient Well-Known Member

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    When I was a few years younger I moved someone's boyfriend in with me for a couple of months because he was without a place to stay. She had no idea what was going on and would come over for drinks about 1-2 times per week to relax. Boy was gay/bi/curious and wanted to basically pay for a place to stay by being..."available". You get my drift. He needed a place to stay and I wasn't prepared to turn him down. I contributed to and created a seriously fucked up situation. One day he called me from work and said "OMG...She's pregnant. I don't know what do to." When he got to my house I wrote him a check, told him I reserved him a hotel room for a week and he could use the money to rent a place once he found something permanent. I wished him luck and changed my #. Lesson learned: Don't be an asshole! Another lesson: Life can be just like one of those fucked up Lifetime Network movies
     
  3. Eason

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    I read that post three times and still don't think I understand it.
     
  4. CouttsClient

    CouttsClient Well-Known Member

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    I read that post three times and still don't think I understand it.
    Mine? Don't worry. I don't understand why I did it
     
  5. Benzito

    Benzito Well-Known Member

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    Is the OP the same guy who started the "Friendly Fire" threak in DT? I see that on the horizon, best case scenario for you. For you, not me. Not that there's anything wrong with that, if you're into that sort of thing.
     
  6. Benzito

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    Mine? Don't worry. I don't understand why I did it

    So ... he was two-timing you and he got a chick pregnant? And then you wrote him a check? What are we missing?
     
  7. CouttsClient

    CouttsClient Well-Known Member

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    So ... he was two-timing you and he got a chick pregnant? And then you wrote him a check? What are we missing?
    He was two-timing her. I wrote him the check so he could get out of my house. Maybe you missed the gay thing.
     
  8. acecow

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    He was two-timing her.

    I wrote him the check so he could get out of my house. Maybe you missed the gay thing.


    Kinda like I had to do with an ex-gf. [​IMG] No choice, really. She wouldn't leave otherwise.
     
  9. NAMOR

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    Good idea or bad idea? Discuss.

    oiy [​IMG]
     
  10. NorCal

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    I think adultery is when one of the parties is married. And I think by dating he means shagging her.

    Seriously. Why the need to be the morality police? Who the hell knows what these people's situation is, how serious they are (I'm going to guess not very), and why she wants to sleep around. Maybe a fuck buddy is just what the doctor ordered.

    Schtup her if you wanna, just don't be a dick to her and don't get to attached.
     
  11. Barnabus

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    Man youre are gonna have to live with knowing hes boinking her too when she leaves your place and goes home[​IMG]

    get her to leave him then sleep with her then eventually leave her as a woman like that is not a keeper
     
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    Go for it! No skin off my back. Don't get seriously involved with her or get her knocked up and you should be okay.
     
  14. Nil

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    Relationship = purely physical in this situation.

    It's a dickish thing to do, but if you're comfortable with it, which it seems like you are, go for it. By no means should you ever try to establish any sort of real relationship with her though.
     
  15. acidboy

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    you know what you should do? make her call her boyfriend and talk to him while you're ramming her up her sphincter.
     
  16. edmorel

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    you know what you should do? make her call her boyfriend and talk to him while you're ramming her up her sphincter.

    That's Alpha.
     
  17. Beetleything

    Beetleything Well-Known Member

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    My mother always says - "Play with fire - you'll get burned."
     
  18. Benzito

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    He was two-timing her.

    I wrote him the check so he could get out of my house. Maybe you missed the gay thing.


    Wait, wut? You are gay or the guy was? [​IMG]
     
  19. Beetleything

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    Wait, wut? You are gay or the guy was? [​IMG]

    Oh dear ...
    i think the guy was gay and trying that out whilst living with poster - who i think is a female.

    She just wanted him gone..so the cheque!
     
  20. CouttsClient

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    Oh dear ...
    i think the guy was gay and trying that out whilst living with poster - who i think is a female.

    She just wanted him gone..so the cheque!

    Almost. I'm a dude, dude.
     

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