Originally Posted by Crakaveli
being in a frat is the only way to achieve this? if you aren't in a frat you are an anti-social loser?
Yes, all GDI are not only anti-social losers, but they also have tiny cocks and cant bench more than their own body weight.
Originally Posted by Tardek
We don't have frats here, but from my understanding while not being in a frat doesn't automatically make you a loser, it sure as hell doesn't hurt.
Not true. Independants (not greek) are not losers. Most are ust people who are for their own reasons not interested in the fraternity / sorority social system. Some are losers, but not because they are not in a fraternity.
Alot of people here (and elsewhere) have this strange stance on fraternities. For example, they chastize them for dressing the same, yet hang out on a message board where we have SF approved brands / outfits and people start threads asking "how do I look"?
I would be willing to bet that more than a few of the criticizers are simply people who would have like to be, but werent invited into Greek culture and are harbouring a bit of an inferiority complex.
Its easy to take on an elitist / critical stance of something in order to mask your own insecutiries or social ineptitudes. "Ohh, you dont want me in your club? Well I wouldnt be in your stupid club anyways. You all drink crappy keg beer & wear A&F and I drink 18 yo single malt and wear Brioni. Pfffft, who would want to hang out with hot little sorority girls... They are all dumb and giggle and spend daddy's money. how do I know all this? I read it in an expose / watched a teenage drama on Fox / some frat guys sit behind me in chemistry class."
Most people who are not Greek are totally cool. Its ust that they are confident enough about who they are and what they want that they dont need to make sweeping generalizations about a social system in order to make themselves feel better about their self perceived shortcomings.