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Originally Posted by
MilanoStyle 
[...]If you guys had a tight game, you guys should have gotten at least some make outs and plans down for next meet up that may lead to sex.
How do you know? You don't know these girls, do you? Assuming you will get anything on a date is stupid and counter-productive in my opinion. Hoping and wishing for some action is all good, but assuming and planning as if you know you will is not. It's better to expect nothing and be surprised by getting something than to expect everything and be disappointed when you get nothing.
That being said, I think it's important to decide beforehand what you actually want to achieve with a date. If you are only after sexual encounters and not interested in long-term relationships, there is nothing wrong with having a direct approach, but never EVER put up idiotic ultimatums like the stupid friend did in this case. If you are in fact interested in a long-term relationship, expecting to get laid on the first date is not the right way to go.
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MilanoStyle 1. Never go expansive dinner when meeting up girls for the first time. Pressure becomes too high.
I agree, in principle, but after all, this was New Year's Eve, which I think would qualify as an exception to that rule. On the other hand, going out on a double date with two strange girls on New Year's Eve might not be the best thing to do, but given the circumstances, I think the dinner was appropriate.
