You would stand out simply by being well dressed and wearing a tuxedo that fit properly: 1. Peak lapels, 1 or 2 button single breasted 2. learn how to tie a bow tie, if for no other reason than at the end of the night you can untie it and wear it around your neck like Frank Sinatra and look infinitely cooler than your friends. 3. Wear good shoes, either the patent leather variety, or even better, a well shined pair of black calfskin oxfords 4. Black bow tie, they shouldnt even make them in other colors. 5. Some might disagree, but cumberbunds are optional. They were made originally for fat people, basically as a fancy girdle. There is no need for them anymore. 6. White linen pocket square 7. sheer black socks, over the calf style.