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I broke up with my gf (general breakup thread)

Matt

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It had to be done.

She's great, but it wasnt a relationship that was heading anywhere, so after a year and a half I put a stop to it.

Just kinda eating into each other's futures if we keep going like that.

It's still sad though.
 

hamish5178

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I ended a 20 month relationship on Friday, I feel for you man.

I'm going far away for college and that broke her heart, still trying to figure out what I can learn from the whole thing.
 

mack11211

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Originally Posted by m@T
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It had to be done.

She's great, but it wasnt a relationship that was heading anywhere, so after a year and a half I put a stop to it.

Just kinda eating into each other's futures if we keep going like that.

It's still sad though.


Too bad.

Don't hit the Bong Milk too hard.
 

Bradford

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I feel for you Matt. Even when you know it is the right move, it's still tough to go through.

Keep yourself busy and the hurt will eventually pass.
 

philosophe

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I'm sorry it had to go that way. Sometimes what's right really hurts.
 

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Sorry.

But now StyleForum will get all your love.
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thekunk07

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sorry, but conversely, congratulations.most people don't know when to nip a relationship in the bud. you, apparently, do.
 

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M@t you always have kunks shoulder to cry on if you need it.
 

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Originally Posted by thekunk07
most people don't know when to nip a relationship in the bud. you, apparently, do.
Well not every relationship needs to have direction. Unless either of you are looking to settle down, the relationship wouldn't be eating into each other's future. The relationship could just be for fun. It'd be like a hobby. You don't want to turn it into a career, but you enjoy doing it anyway.
 

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Sorry to hear that m@t. You know SF is here if you need to talk about anything with the steez.
 

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While any breakup sucks, I think you are the kinda guy to have made a solid decision on this.

I'll commisserate for a moment, but let me be the first to buy you a virtual beer (would be a real beer if at all possible in real life) or two and throw you back into the deep end of the pool.

K
 

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That sucks man, but when one door closes another one opens
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If you have to do it, it's better that it's done prior to the new year's. Now you have a fresh start to court any ladies you like.
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Originally Posted by m@T
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It had to be done.

She's great, but it wasnt a relationship that was heading anywhere, so after a year and a half I put a stop to it.

Just kinda eating into each other's futures if we keep going like that.

It's still sad though.
 

whnay.

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I like your style m@t, right before Christmas so you don't have to unload on a gift.
 

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