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post #46 of 3554
12/22/08 at 1:26pm
Sorry to hear but such is life. I'm sure you'll find another in due time.
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post #47 of 3554
12/22/08 at 10:41pm
It's been a long time since I've had your feeling -- what I remember most is the sense that "if it was going to end anyway, why not sooner?"
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post #48 of 3554
12/23/08 at 2:03am
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what kind of girlfriend did you have? Sounds pretty controlling to me.

Personal experience?

All too real my friend, all too real.
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post #49 of 3554
12/23/08 at 11:59am
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what kind of girlfriend did you have? Sounds pretty controlling to me.

No, not especially. I just noticed that my priorities shifted - as they tend to do for every relationship - from being "me"-oriented to being "us" oriented.

Turned out I fixed all the problems by marrying a cigar-smoking, strip-club-visiting, bourbon-drinking golfer.
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post #50 of 3554
12/23/08 at 12:10pm
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sorry, but conversely, congratulations.most people don't know when to nip a relationship in the bud. you, apparently, do.

+1

Keep your head up, its really hard this time of year too. But good for you for doing the right thing. Take some time to your self. I liked being single.
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post #51 of 3554
12/23/08 at 3:32pm
Sorry to hear Matt. The whole "door/window" thing is real, though. I'm thinking '09 will be legendary for you.
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post #52 of 3554
12/23/08 at 3:39pm
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I like your style m@t, right before Christmas so you don't have to unload on a gift.

Haha.


Matt, if you're still single, you can always come chill with teh g33k in South America next year. I will teach you about teh wimminz.
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post #53 of 3554
12/24/08 at 9:23pm
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i l00k f0rwerd to this clazz.
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post #54 of 3554
12/24/08 at 11:25pm
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Haha.


Matt, if you're still single, you can always come chill with teh g33k in South America next year. I will teach you about teh peniz.

fixed
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post #55 of 3554
12/25/08 at 1:45am
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Turned out I fixed all the problems by marrying a cigar-smoking, strip-club-visiting, bourbon-drinking golfer.

You're living proof that sometimes you can have it all!
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post #56 of 3554
5/31/09 at 1:12pm
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another one down....ended it Thursday night after 3 months.

I guess the this is how we roll thread will thank me for it.
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post #57 of 3554
5/31/09 at 1:17pm
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another one down....ended it Thursday night after 3 months.

I guess the this is how we roll thread will thank me for it.

We do thank you.
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post #58 of 3554
5/31/09 at 2:14pm
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Originally Posted by thekunk07 View Post
sorry, but conversely, congratulations.most people don't know when to nip a relationship in the bud. you, apparently, do.

This is what I am hoping as well. I broke up with my gf of 9 months yesterday, and I mostly feel like I was doing the right thing. I came to realize that, if I were to spend years in a relationship with this girl, I'd probably go insane. I just wish the breakup had been more amicable.

One thing I realized, though, is that with the three women I've dated since getting divorced a few years ago, I've broken up with all of them right about this time of year. What is it about spring? Do I realize there is so much to do that I don't want to be held back by a mediocre relationship?

Still, it's nice to just focus on myself and my daughter again...
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post #59 of 3554
5/31/09 at 5:10pm
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Originally Posted by m@T View Post
another one down....ended it Thursday night after 3 months.

I guess the this is how we roll thread will thank me for it.

yep, all of us married boring guys live to hear the details of your life. keep up the good work
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post #60 of 3554
6/1/09 at 1:53pm
Do any of you ever think that breaking up with a girl is not the best decision, but hopefully it will be in the long run? I'm not one to agonize over failing relationships or wait until they get really bad before ending it.
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