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post #3556 of 3570
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Originally Posted by otc View Post

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Lay it on us, girlfriend.
post #3557 of 3570
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Originally Posted by Neo_Version 7 View Post

sad-woman-eating.jpg

Lay it on us, girlfriend.

http://www.styleforum.net/t/29653/things-that-are-pissing-you-off/53700#post_6681155
post #3558 of 3570
Ehh. Sucky but obviously for the best OTC.
post #3559 of 3570
She wrote me a check (after the breakup started) to pay me back for some concert/theater tickets I bought (she had been planning to pay...just nobody carries checks or very much cash).

I feel kinda weird depositing it...but at the same time, it was probably motivated by a "here's all your crap back so I can go on without you" sentiment (it was accompanied by the few things of mine that were at here place), so it's kind of awkward to just ignore it. I guess I will deposit it...

I do hope we can continue to be friends at some point. I've had good luck remaining friendly, or at least cordial, with my exes,...we met through a good friend and she became friends with all of my friends (though for some reason,I never really got close to any of her friends)
post #3560 of 3570
Otc, that is a burden too heavy to be carried by one man.

There is one exception, however, and that is me.

Send me the check in my name.
post #3561 of 3570
Or me. 28.5 gets old quick.
post #3562 of 3570
Actually contemplated sending some of it to my high school girlfriend (kind of like a belated wedding present since she just got married).

When we broke up, I skipped out on something like a 100 debt (and I don't think I paid it back the first summer of college when we started getting it on again). I usually see them when I go home for holidays and I think she could use the money (grad student and all)...

And that whole karma thing
post #3563 of 3570
there. is. no. such. thing. as. karma.

spend it on yourself. buy something nice. buy your friends drinks. buy a tube of ice cream and a nice movie from netflix or whatever you people use. get a nice expensive hooker. or weed. you deserve the break, dude.
post #3564 of 3570
Cash the check and go to a strip club.
post #3565 of 3570
I'll be posting in here soon, guys.
post #3566 of 3570
Did she finally escape from your basement?
post #3567 of 3570
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Originally Posted by otc View Post

Actually contemplated sending some of it to my high school girlfriend (kind of like a belated wedding present since she just got married).

When we broke up, I skipped out on something like a 100 debt (and I don't think I paid it back the first summer of college when we started getting it on again). I usually see them when I go home for holidays and I think she could use the money (grad student and all)...

And that whole karma thing

Are you Catholic with all that guilt trip????biggrin.gif
post #3568 of 3570
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Originally Posted by hendrix View Post

I don't know.

This sounds so shitty, but I think it might have partly been the ego trip of going up to the hottest girl in the club and succeeding*. I say this because I thought about leaving once it was clear I could have it, but I didn't. I'd got way too far in by that stage.

The other thing is that our relationship wasn't going very well. I had just moved to a new city to be with her and I expected that her neediness would wane after that move but it didn't. I should probably have called it then, but it'd been one of those relationships where we were often breaking up and getting back together and I'd basically gotten to the point where I didn't see a real break up as an option.

Neither of those are meant to be excuses. Just reflections for myself to think about.

Jesus christ I'm an asshole.

It's very humbling to realise how corruptible I've become.

*not meant to be a humblebrag.

bump
post #3569 of 3570
gimme an hour and I will have
post #3570 of 3570

it's better that it's done prior to the new year's. Now you have a fresh start to court any ladies you like.

CHEEFv

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