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post #3526 of 3570
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Originally Posted by lasbar View Post

Are you joking????

She has serial killer potential that girl..uhoh.gif


100% serious.

It was clear that they were a bad couple when they were together; they fought all the time and right in front of everyone too. Made everyone real uncomfortable. But we weren't actually sure whether she was crazy, he was bad in relationships, or whether they were just a bad fit.

We now know...
post #3527 of 3570

Only if I could find a nice pretty woman version of Dexter Morgan.

 

My life would be complete.

post #3528 of 3570
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Originally Posted by DextersMorgan View Post

Only if I could find a nice pretty woman version of Dexter Morgan.

My life would be complete.

Well, at the very least, it would be over.
post #3529 of 3570

Broke up with a GF about 2 and half years ago, was my fault, not hers (had no power for a relationship back then).

Recently met her again and we instantly had a very good relationship again. problem is, she has a BF for nearly 2 years now. what should i do?

best part is, i know that dude..

post #3530 of 3570
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Originally Posted by mr usneun View Post

Broke up with a GF about 2 and half years ago, was my fault, not hers (had no power for a relationship back then).
Recently met her again and we instantly had a very good relationship again. problem is, she has a BF for nearly 2 years now. what should i do?
best part is, i know that dude..

Do nothing......You broke up cause it was your fault......If it does not work out with her and her current BF, then you have an option...
post #3531 of 3570
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Originally Posted by breakfasteatre View Post

I fucked up hard tonight, and since none of my friends are awake i have to resort to styleforum.

How the hell do you tell the person you love you are loosing your attraction to them, without breaking their heart? I have tried to be discrete about it, talking about how we should be eating healthier, inviting her to go for jogs and bike rides with me, but i just felt like she stopped trying.

I feel like shit, i really love her, but im 22 and we rarely have sex anymore. I am lucky to have her, and for her to put up with me, i never wanted to hurt her like this

Try instead just being her friend? 

post #3532 of 3570
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Originally Posted by DextersMorgan View Post

Try instead just being her friend? 

Is it possible to be just friends with someone you want to boan?
post #3533 of 3570
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Originally Posted by DextersMorgan View Post

Try instead just being her friend? 

That's impossible...

They might go on at the moment because they're bf and gf anymore..

It could be the essential lesson to retain from this story..
post #3534 of 3570
fuck.

I did something horrible. Felt guilty right away, but it looks like I'm getting my just deserves and more.

I hate that I've done this to someone I really care about. i quite despise myself right now.

The consequences could be more than that though.

i will find out next week.
post #3535 of 3570
^ next week? then it gives you time to head it off at the pass, yes?
post #3536 of 3570
nope. she doesn't believe in abortion.

I only found out when she texted me a week after the act. so way too late for the ECP by that stage.
post #3537 of 3570
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Originally Posted by hendrix View Post

nope. she doesn't believe in abortion.

I only found out when she texted me a week after the act. so way too late for the ECP by that stage.

oooh... okay. if that's the case, then congratulations dad.
post #3538 of 3570
subscribed.
post #3539 of 3570
Man, a possible unplanned pregnancy can gnaw away at the nerves when it's with the one you're with. I can only imagine what it's like to go through that with a fling, especially when you're exclusive with someone else. Best probable outcome is that she's not knocked up and your girlfriend forgives you, but never really trusts you the same way again. Worst probable outcome is, well, that goes without saying.

If this girl on the side someone you could ever see yourself with? I think it's important to "be a man" in situations like this, but if there's no real future with this girl, then I think the best thing to do is not be in the child's life while still ensuring anonymously that it wants for nothing essential. Best of luck, man.
post #3540 of 3570
No,

The girlfriend found out. It's over, obviously. It was absolutely horrible. She's always been very needy, and our relationship wasn't going so well, but she's always been very trusting. I really hope I haven't damaged her. Obviously if the girl was pregnant I was planning on telling her, but the way she found out was worse - she saw my phone and read the txts from the might-be-pregnant girl.

I broke it off with the girl who's pregnant by telling her I wanted back with my girlfriend. That was before I found out she might be pregnant. That's kinda tarnished me for her and any chance of a future relationship with her. She's nice but tbh I couldn't imagine being with her long term. But maybe that's because I was with my girlfriend for 3 1/2 years.

More importantly, she's not even a resident of this country.

Jesus christ this was a shitty thing to do.
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