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post #3496 of 3570
My number with women is in the triple digits fyi.
post #3497 of 3570
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Originally Posted by lasbar View Post

I go for 0.2 on the women side...
His mum must have breastfed him until his teens..
On the men side...

A number whose square is less than or equal to zero is an imaginary number.
post #3498 of 3570
0^2=0
0≥0
0≤0
0=0
post #3499 of 3570
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Originally Posted by b1os View Post

0^2=0
0≥0
0≤0
0=0

Pedant. smile.gif
post #3500 of 3570
You're welcome.
post #3501 of 3570
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Originally Posted by Neo_Version 7 View Post

My number with women is in the triple digits fyi.

Neo, you are really one of the greatest poaster on SF...
post #3502 of 3570
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Originally Posted by lasbar View Post

Neo, you are really one of the greatest poaster on SF...

+1
post #3503 of 3570
FYI, 1.49 has 3 digits.

On a side note, I will give major props to the Sun King for at least having the balls to say something. I personally have severe approach anxiety despite having a lot of positive things going for me.

I hate getting this and can't seem to get over it despite having experience that proves the fear was invalid.
Edited by Fraiche - 9/25/12 at 4:41pm
post #3504 of 3570
Broke up with my gf of 6 months a month ago. It felt bad at first, but I sucked it up thinking I did the right thing.

I recently (i.e. a couple of days) sometimes catch myself thinking back at the times, feeling awful, and wondering if the breakup was worth in. This is when my rational ego gets in and reminds me of how she behaved with me. Still, I can't make this annoying and excruciating sorrow to go away. I'm afraid I still feel something for her (she certainly does) -- or is it the good memories? Fuck.
post #3505 of 3570
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Originally Posted by b1os View Post

0^2=0
0≥0
0≤0
0=0

0/0 wink.gif
post #3506 of 3570
Don't you dare to!
post #3507 of 3570
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Originally Posted by wootx View Post

Broke up with my gf of 6 months a month ago. It felt bad at first, but I sucked it up thinking I did the right thing.
I recently (i.e. a couple of days) sometimes catch myself thinking back at the times, feeling awful, and wondering if the breakup was worth in. This is when my rational ego gets in and reminds me of how she behaved with me. Still, I can't make this annoying and excruciating sorrow to go away. I'm afraid I still feel something for her (she certainly does) -- or is it the good memories? Fuck.

It's ok to still feel something for her.

I still feel something for girls I've broken up with 5+ years ago.

Just try to ignore it.
post #3508 of 3570
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Originally Posted by wootx View Post

Broke up with my gf of 6 months a month ago. It felt bad at first, but I sucked it up thinking I did the right thing.
I recently (i.e. a couple of days) sometimes catch myself thinking back at the times, feeling awful, and wondering if the breakup was worth in. This is when my rational ego gets in and reminds me of how she behaved with me. Still, I can't make this annoying and excruciating sorrow to go away. I'm afraid I still feel something for her (she certainly does) -- or is it the good memories? Fuck.

"how she behaved with me" is the key to guiding you. You can't abide bad behavior or, worse, reward it. In my experience the only thing that works is to break it off, then go about your life, NOT making any conciliatory overtures. If she seeks your forgiveness, you may have the possibility of starting over, perhaps on better terms, but it is unfortunately true that the surest predictor of future behavior is past behavior.

Six months seems to be about the longest most of the seriously flawed can manage to act decently. The arrival of that milestone often triggers a panicked reaction and the need to misbehave in order to bail.
Edited by LaoHu - 10/3/12 at 3:28pm
post #3509 of 3570
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Originally Posted by hendrix View Post

It's ok to still feel something for her.
I still feel something for girls I've broken up with 5+ years ago.
Just try to ignore it.

"
But that can take so long, it can take years. Some things you never really get over.


Yeah, of course. I think that’s what the song is about: it seems like everybody’s looking for this idea of closure these days. I don’t really believe in closure. Once you’ve had your heart broken, you just have to keep on carrying it. It doesn’t mean you’re going to be bitter and sad all your life, but you won’t really get over it and forget about it. You just move on."

jens lekman - the end of the world is bigger than love.
post #3510 of 3570
Joining the club :/. This shit sucks.
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