So I have been going out with this girl that I got in touch with through mutual friends for four or five times.
We spent long evenings together and talked and laughed nonstop.
She even rejected my plan to go to some artsy museums in favour of asking me out to go to the spa instead.
Without hesitation she did not only follow into the nudist area where all the saunas and steam bathes are located but also striped naked in an instant.
We have been kissing in the car in front of her house and I was a happy man until out of a sudden she brought up her ex and that she was not sure to be over the breakup yet and that she needed some time to sort out her feelings.
Everything went downhill from there.
I didn't want to be pushy and said she should take her time, especially since she just started her first job and was working 12-14h 6 days a week and was preparing for her first out of house presentation for an important customer.
We saw each other for the last time last monday, her presentation was wednesday and I was to leave early thursday morning to be away working until monday or tuesday this week.
As we spent a lot of time talking about her job, I asked her to give me a call wednesday evening or during thursday just to know how the presentation went.
She didn't call.
I had to switch SIM cards mid thursday and put back in my privat one no sooner than sunday to monday night.
Nothing, not a single call or text message.
I sent her a message that I had returned and if everything was alright because I have not heard of her for several days, just to receive a message saying she had been busy all weekend and have had no time to think of other stuff.
This evening I will meet with a friend to play a round of squash and she always told me she would be interested in learning how to play.
So I give her a call to tell her to join us and she acts weird, telling me she has time to come, only to tell me a minute later that she has to sort some paperwork out and that she won't join.
Some more smalltalk and she throws the obligatory "This should not be said through phone, but I am afraid I am not open for a new relationship at this point" at me.
Seriously, what is this shit?
She tells me how much she enjoyes the time with myself and last time we met she barely let me go, holding myself tightly for several minutes and now she would rather see her female friends than myself in her spare time?
If the past breakup hurt yourself, what would be better medicine than somebody who cares for you and you feel comfortable with?
Women are alien to myself....