I broke up with my gf (general breakup thread) - Page 229

The first time? Nothing. After "we've had this fight countless times," everything.

I'm in. Or rather, I'm out of my relationship.

I'm fine with my gf, but every time I visit this thread, I think about breaking up. What's wrong with me?

Group think?

You realize how many attractive SFers are single and feel like switching teams?

Group think, yes.

Peer pressure or just lack of trust in the foundations of your current relationship..

Take every relationship as a learning curve...

Follow your heart without disconnecting it from your head..

I have a serious problem with wanting what I can't have.

Saw the ex today, we boned, then talked... somehow it ended with both of us in tears, her admitting she's starting to date someone else, and us realizing we could never be. I felt something I haven't felt in the longest time ever- serious heartache... Then I left her apartment and felt pretty okay. This isn't normal is it?

It's normal, just don't do it again.

Well, I'm happy to report that it's progressed into full blown mopeyness for me. Fuck.

take a day. drink yourself into oblivion. then wake up the next day, puke, lay around on the couch nursing your hangover.

the day after that, go out and start doing shit. sign up for online dating. go hang out at whole foods and look at all the other hot bitches you can date. sign up for a class. do whatever you have to do to distance yourself from this broad.

and for the love of god, DO NOT BANG HER AGAIN.

What exactly is the problem? It seems pretty clear you both have strong feelings for one another. Don't need to complicate things. Be with her.

She's banging another dude.

the problem is you like dick.

You mean you aren't just having a wank?