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post #3331 of 3570
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Originally Posted by Gibonius View Post

I just can't imagine, sitting at home one night and texting a mutual friend to show you her tits lol8[1].gif Would make more sense if it was some random Internet tramp, but a friend? Shit is hilarious, in the tragic-comic vein.
I knew I wasn't part of the texting generation, but this just blows my mind that people could do something like this out of "boredom." You gotta wonder what the chick who sent the pics was thinking too, since she had to have know that dude was dating a friend.

Haha she sounds fun. Send her number my way, brah. But I do agree with this. Even at 16 I wasn't stupid enough to text someone asking for nudies while I was dating someone.
post #3332 of 3570
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Originally Posted by mr.orange View Post

I asked to see them and wasn't really expecting a picture. I guess I was bored. Dude I deleted the pic immediately after she saw it.
We were going through my phone together. Looking through pictures, what sort of apps I had on it, what the iOS5 update was like, nothing really too intrusive IMO. I got the picture like 2 weeks ago and completely forgot about it. I deleted it from my photo stream, but the pic was still freaking saved on my camera roll censored.gif
It is. She's told me it'll take time, but she's willing to trust me again. Sigh. I know it'll be tough being subject to scrutiny by her and her mother. I'm not a bad dude, but one slip up like this makes it seem like everything I say, or do has much less credibility.

Did she have nice tits?
post #3333 of 3570
I'm 23 she is 18, we go to the same community college. We met through a class doing the same presentation together.

lol, you already know this is going to be lame as fuck. But I just want to post it anyways.

We dated for about 3 months? I forgot how long...never got laid, only got to second base. For the little time we spent together, I used her as a taxi driver to take me to places that I wanted to go(mostly shopping for clothes and thrifting). We didn't talk much. It wasn't working out there was very little chemistry, and she spoke up first about it. So we broke up.

I'm not depressed because I've gone through more painful break ups before, but I'm not exactly fine and dandy either. I just felt like posting in this thread since I have a story.

Good night gents.
post #3334 of 3570
Holy shit, how did you invest nearly 100 days into a relationship where there was little chemistry and virtually no physical engagement. I'm not even one of those posturing Alpha types, but three months and you maxed out at second base?
post #3335 of 3570
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Originally Posted by APK View Post

Holy shit, how did you invest nearly 100 days into a relationship where there was little chemistry and virtually no physical engagement. I'm not even one of those posturing Alpha types, but three months and you maxed out at second base?

yeah holy crap. Did you guys even find each other attractive?
post #3336 of 3570
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Originally Posted by Pieceofsand View Post

I'm 23 she is 18, we go to the same community college. We met through a class doing the same presentation together.
lol, you already know this is going to be lame as fuck. But I just want to post it anyways.
We dated for about 3 months? I forgot how long...never got laid, only got to second base. For the little time we spent together, I used her as a taxi driver to take me to places that I wanted to go(mostly shopping for clothes and thrifting). We didn't talk much. It wasn't working out there was very little chemistry, and she spoke up first about it. So we broke up.
I'm not depressed because I've gone through more painful break ups before, but I'm not exactly fine and dandy either. I just felt like posting in this thread since I have a story.
Good night gents.

That was a perfect match made in heaven...

It wasn't working and you lost your taxi...

3 months without packing the meat in the freezer?
post #3337 of 3570
Lol. Just for the clarification there was a bit of chemistry in the beginning. She found me more attractive given that she never had a boyfriend, never kissed a guy etc. I suspect a lot of problems in her, she is still very immature with her parents and stuff. When we go out I feel like I'm her dad sometimes. Needless to say, we sort of grew apart. I wasn't getting laid and was losing interest. It was bound to happen which I wasn't fully surprised when it happened. It's funny how you guys seem more disappointed than me, I had a good experience and it didn't feel like a loss to me.

Cheers Gents icon_gu_b_slayer[1].gif
post #3338 of 3570
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Originally Posted by Pieceofsand View Post

Lol. Just for the clarification there was a bit of chemistry in the beginning. She found me more attractive given that she never had a boyfriend, never kissed a guy etc. I suspect a lot of problems in her, she is still very immature with her parents and stuff. When we go out I feel like I'm her dad sometimes. Needless to say, we sort of grew apart. I wasn't getting laid and was losing interest. It was bound to happen which I wasn't fully surprised when it happened. It's funny how you guys seem more disappointed than me, I had a good experience and it didn't feel like a loss to me.
Cheers Gents icon_gu_b_slayer[1].gif

It is most likely lack of experience on her part...

First relationships are difficult to emotionally handle..

How old is she and how old are you?
post #3339 of 3570
Lack of experience on her part is right, damn right. Her communication skills are near non-existent, literally she would hold things/feelings inside of her and not tell me anything. You could imagine the difficulty trying to work with that. Shen often tells me that she isn't not good at expressing her feelings, as unusually patient as I am for a 24 year old, I have consult her about these things, that although she isn't good at communicating, she ought to at least try, and through trial and failure she would gradually succeed excellence; I'm not sure if she fully understood me. But then again, I'm 24 and I am just getting my beak wet, she is 18 and barely just cracked the egg shell in a nest.
post #3340 of 3570
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Originally Posted by Pieceofsand View Post

Lack of experience on her part is right, damn right. Her communication skills are near non-existent, literally she would hold things/feelings inside of her and not tell me anything. You could imagine the difficulty trying to work with that. Shen often tells me that she isn't not good at expressing her feelings, as unusually patient as I am for a 24 year old, I have consult her about these things, that although she isn't good at communicating, she ought to at least try, and through trial and failure she would gradually succeed excellence; I'm not sure if she fully understood me. But then again, I'm 24 and I am just getting my beak wet, she is 18 and barely just cracked the egg shell in a nest.

Beak wet?

Lovely metaphor...

Is she really immature ,close to her parents?

What kind of social/religious background is she coming from?
post #3341 of 3570
Well, she is mature for her age by far. But no comparison with people my age, not to mention that I am much more stabilized than an average 24 year old.

I hardly know anything about her parents, we had brunch once that was all. They seem like nice fellas, practically I consider them harmless people. Through observation during the course of our meal, I sort of picked up that her mother was a bit overly corky for someone her age(her mannerism in particular), mid 40s'd be my guess; her father seemed nice, he didn't talked much. From the little that I know about him through my ex that he is a very impatient person, at times a bit pushy and that she often gets in conflict with her daddy at home. I did staggered a little when he asked me "So when are you coming to our house" during our meal. To add the icing on top, I later got a text from my ex after our brunch, that her Dad wanted to know what size of shoes I wear because he wants to buy me skii boots.

They seem to be very family oriented people, large families and very religious(Catholic). She no longer goes to church(so she claims), but she have a cross hanging on her rear view mirror. She would be one of those cynical, dark sense of humor type girl, who draws a lots of dark animation stuff. I've seen some of her art work and they're actually pretty damn good. These are just the little things that I had picked up during the little few months that I dated her.
post #3342 of 3570
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Originally Posted by Pieceofsand View Post

Well, she is mature for her age by far. But no comparison with people my age, not to mention that I am much more stabilized than an average 24 year old.
I hardly know anything about her parents, we had brunch once that was all. They seem like nice fellas, practically I consider them harmless people. Through observation during the course of our meal, I sort of picked up that her mother was a bit overly corky for someone her age(her mannerism in particular), mid 40s'd be my guess; her father seemed nice, he didn't talked much. From the little that I know about him through my ex that he is a very impatient person, at times a bit pushy and that she often gets in conflict with her daddy at home. I did staggered a little when he asked me "So when are you coming to our house" during our meal. To add the icing on top, I later got a text from my ex after our brunch, that her Dad wanted to know what size of shoes I wear because he wants to buy me skii boots.
They seem to be very family oriented people, large families and very religious(Catholic). She no longer goes to church(so she claims), but she have a cross hanging on her rear view mirror. She would be one of those cynical, dark sense of humor type girl, who draws a lots of dark animation stuff. I've seen some of her art work and they're actually pretty damn good. These are just the little things that I had picked up during the little few months that I dated her.

Religious girls tend to have ambiguous relationship with sex and relationship in general.

If the family is Catholic ,she most likely have been raised according to certain behavioural canons and I'm not surprised you didn't have sex..

It must have been quite a thing to introduce to you to her folks.

She might have been spooked by the all experience..
post #3343 of 3570
Yes, you're absolutely right. She was very spooked by all these stuff. Now that I really look back at it and think of the things she have told me, she was pretty foreign to the whole thing. I never hardly thought about it that way since I've only saw it through my perspective on how life should be. Haha, you are pretty bad ass icon_gu_b_slayer[1].gif
post #3344 of 3570
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Originally Posted by deadly7 View Post

Haha she sounds fun. Send her number my way, brah. But I do agree with this. Even at 16 I wasn't stupid enough to text someone asking for nudies while I was dating someone.

She is fun. I've always thought she could be a little more mature, but screw it. I guess I need to grow up before I ask that she do the same.

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Originally Posted by lasbar View Post

Did she have nice tits?

Very nice. Her phone's resolution sucks, but it wasn't too bad of a shot.

UPDATE: gf said she didn't want to argue and just wants to be happy again so things are back to normal. I still have a mini panic attack when I'm flipping through my pictures though lol.

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Originally Posted by Pieceofsand View Post

I'm 23 she is 18, we go to the same community college. We met through a class doing the same presentation together.
lol, you already know this is going to be lame as fuck. But I just want to post it anyways.
We dated for about 3 months? I forgot how long...never got laid, only got to second base. For the little time we spent together, I used her as a taxi driver to take me to places that I wanted to go(mostly shopping for clothes and thrifting). We didn't talk much. It wasn't working out there was very little chemistry, and she spoke up first about it. So we broke up.
I'm not depressed because I've gone through more painful break ups before, but I'm not exactly fine and dandy either. I just felt like posting in this thread since I have a story.
Good night gents.

It's a good thing you didn't have sex. I think she would've been a devastated if you hit it and quit it given that it was her first relationship.
post #3345 of 3570
Be a good man and practice the campground rule, especially when dating someone much younger or with much less experience: leave it in better condition (emotionally, duh) than you found it.
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