Originally Posted by mr.orange
I asked to see them and wasn't really expecting a picture. I guess I was bored.
That wouldn't fill me with confidence if I was your gf. "I was bored so I asked one of our friends to show me her tits and she did." Why would you think that was acceptable?
Dude I deleted the pic immediately after she saw it.
So...once you got caught, you deleted the offending picture? You paragon of virtue, you.
It is. She's told me it'll take time, but she's willing to trust me again. Sigh. I know it'll be tough being subject to scrutiny by her and her mother. I'm not a bad dude, but one slip up like this makes it seem like everything I say, or do has much less credibility.
And justifiably so. You fucked up, admitting that to yourself is a necessary step here. Probably recoverable, but it'll take effort from you and some level of understanding from her. If you make an honest effort and she keeps bringing it up, it may be a sign that things are just too damaged to fix.
Why is her mother involved? Not exactly a good sign for the future of the relationship if she's running off to mommy to keep tabs on you.