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Originally Posted by Joffrey View Post

Didn't I tell you to keep communication to a minimum? What's the point of a break up (where you intend to fully enjoy your timely study abroad) if you're talking to the ex often?

what's the point of talking to the ex at all? mine texts me and i ignore her.
post #3302 of 3570
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Originally Posted by hoozah View Post

what's the point of talking to the ex at all? mine texts me and i ignore her.

Yeah but you is dee elfa init.
post #3303 of 3570
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Originally Posted by Beetleything View Post

Never works out....
Been there -- seen it -- done it.....
heard on the radio recently that people that people that break up a lot...if they eventually do get married there's a very high chance of it not lasting as they have poor communication and problem solving skills......
Makes sense.......you wouldn't keep breaking up if you could communicate well together.
Just saying....satisfied.gif

Well the only reason we broke up was because I was leaving to Europe and had it set in my mind that I wanted to be single. Got here and realized that's not really what I wanted
post #3304 of 3570
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Originally Posted by reedobandito View Post

Well the only reason we broke up was because I was leaving to Europe and had it set in my mind that I wanted to be single. Got here and realized that's not really what I wanted

Ok....did you discuss any of that with "her"? before you went?
post #3305 of 3570
Oh yea, I was totally honest and it was a rough few weeks. But I realized I had been stubborn and shortsighted, apologized and asked to get back together with her
post #3306 of 3570
Broke up with my girl bout two months back. Dated for nearly two years. Still think about her all the time, still think about her all the damn time.

Done all of the requisite things, seeing other people, laid the pipe down several times, working on myself, but she is still always on the back of my mind.

I suppose it does not help that we've spoken a couple of times, and she's told me she still considers me the love of her life, and all this other bullshit.

Getting lunch with her on Monday...probably is not the best idea, but I don't know. The prospect of seeing her makes me want to simultaneoulsy vomit, and jump for joy. And i've felt that way since Friday, when we made these plans.

I have a huge feeling she will cancel though, trying to mentally prepare myself to take that if it comes, and play it cool, rather than get desperate and whiny.

FUCK@$

Time heals all wounds eh

Feel like I have to post script this with a 'this isn't the girl of sf fame haha, that 'relationship' lasted all of two months" end
post #3307 of 3570
Trey is telling you:

post #3308 of 3570
Damn it, Mark, knock it off.

I didn't always walk the walk with regards to the advice I dispersed in this thread, but god damn if it isn't true that the best way to really get past your ex is to sever ties with them for an extended period of time. I did this for a brief while, but started frequent communication with her too soon, which only delayed the vital completion of the healing process. She and I have only communicated via sparse email here and there over the past six months and it's finally to a point where I'm confident we could interact frequently without me feeling down about the reality of not being with her. But I'm not going to divert from the occasional communication until that "confidence" becomes an iron-clad certainty. There's no sense in risking it. Follow my lead, gents. This stuff works.
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it works but she still haunts me in my dreams.

her face pretty much faded but i still see the back of her head with that hair or hear her voice around corners well actually it is just shapes now or facial expressions with minimal sounds

the fuck am i living in
Edited by gettoasty - 4/9/12 at 12:13pm
post #3310 of 3570
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Originally Posted by gettoasty View Post

it works but she still haunts me in my dreams.
her face pretty much faded but i still see the back of her head with that hair or hear her voice around corners
the fuck am i living in

you're not ready yet
post #3311 of 3570
jesus.

I must be quite fucked up because you all sound like pussies. From the bottom of my heart, GET THE FUCK OVER IT.

Honestly i'm saying this with complete sincerity. I know as well as anyone that it's good to be sensitive, but right now it's also good to do the fucked up staunch block it off thing. You can deal with the pain when you're 50 and see a counselor or something.

BTW, most of you guys are over the ex. You're just lonely. As soon as you find a new girl you will forget all about it. Solution: get used to being happy being alone. Then you won't be so distraught anytime there's a break up. You'll also be more emotionally stable when you're in a relationship.
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Originally Posted by hendrix View Post

jesus.
I must be quite fucked up because you all sound like pussies. From the bottom of my heart, GET THE FUCK OVER IT.
Honestly i'm saying this with complete sincerity. I know as well as anyone that it's good to be sensitive, but right now it's also good to do the fucked up staunch block it off thing. You can deal with the pain when you're 50 and see a counselor or something.
BTW, most of you guys are over the ex. You're just lonely. As soon as you find a new girl you will forget all about it. Solution: get used to being happy being alone. Then you won't be so distraught anytime there's a break up. You'll also be more emotionally stable when you're in a relationship.

Cruel but fair.
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Originally Posted by hendrix View Post

jesus.
I must be quite fucked up because you all sound like pussies. From the bottom of my heart, GET THE FUCK OVER IT.
Honestly i'm saying this with complete sincerity. I know as well as anyone that it's good to be sensitive, but right now it's also good to do the fucked up staunch block it off thing. You can deal with the pain when you're 50 and see a counselor or something.
BTW, most of you guys are over the ex. You're just lonely. As soon as you find a new girl you will forget all about it. Solution: get used to being happy being alone. Then you won't be so distraught anytime there's a break up. You'll also be more emotionally stable when you're in a relationship.

This times a million is what helped me more than anything else. And no, this does not entail sleeping around with as many chicks as possible.
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Originally Posted by deadly7 View Post

This times a million is what helped me more than anything else. And no, this does not entail sleeping around with as many chicks as possible.

But fuck if it isn't fun, then tiresome, and finally just becomes draining....
post #3315 of 3570
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Originally Posted by whiteslashasian View Post

But fuck if it isn't fun, then tiresome, and finally just becomes draining....

QFT
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