I broke up with my gf (general breakup thread) - Page 197

Originally Posted by Flambeur 

I'm sitting on my couch in the living room drinking a beer. The "ex" is asleep in the bedroom. The last 36 hours have been some of the best in our (old? new? ongoing? dead?) relationship. This is fucked up beyond belief. In a normal world we would have been married by now.
(yes, I am heading back to bed in case you were wondering.)

Originally Posted by Flambeur 

I'm sitting on my couch in the living room drinking a beer. The "ex" is asleep in the bedroom. The last 36 hours have been some of the best in our (old? new? ongoing? dead?) relationship. This is fucked up beyond belief. In a normal world we would have been married by now.
(yes, I am heading back to bed in case you were wondering.)

Originally Posted by poena 

I was just in a relationship like this. It's so hard and I felt on edge the whole time. Loved the girl and cared a lot about her. Thought we were going to get married.
We did the on/off thing for probably 6 months and then eventually she said she couldn't do it anymore. I believe if the situation was a little different we would still be together.
now some new girl is really into me but I can't get the ex out of my head... sucks that we see each other once a week too cause we are on the same volleyball team making it harder to get over her. But I find myself looking forward to going to volleyball.

Originally Posted by Flambeur 

Ugh, the next 24 hours were even better... WTF. I hate this girl. I was about to write her off, and now this. Been in so many long term relationships, came close to marrying before, loved before - but never felt like this about anyone else.
Honestly, there is a cold, logical part of me that tells me it would never work, and then there is a part of me that doesn't care about any of that and would give anything for another day, and the day after that... Ugh.

Originally Posted by Flambeur 

Ugh, the next 24 hours were even better... WTF. I hate this girl. I was about to write her off, and now this. Been in so many long term relationships, came close to marrying before, loved before - but never felt like this about anyone else.
Honestly, there is a cold, logical part of me that tells me it would never work, and then there is a part of me that doesn't care about any of that and would give anything for another day, and the day after that... Ugh.

Originally Posted by jjangles 

Currently feeling bummed myself. Against my better judgment, I reactivated my facebook account after over a year off of it and immediately (and unintentionally) found 2 of my long term girlfriends both have new boyfriends now. It just opened up this pit in my gut, as I cared about both of them deeply, but both ended the relationship with me. One relationship I was engaged to her, and the other lasted for about a year. For some reason I just feel awful that they found happiness and I haven't yet.
/I just moved overseas to get away from all the drama and pain from the last 4 years of my life. And because of my bad judgment, it followed me here.

Originally Posted by Flambeur 

Ugh, the next 24 hours were even better... WTF. I hate this girl. I was about to write her off, and now this. Been in so many long term relationships, came close to marrying before, loved before - but never felt like this about anyone else.
Honestly, there is a cold, logical part of me that tells me it would never work, and then there is a part of me that doesn't care about any of that and would give anything for another day, and the day after that... Ugh.

Originally Posted by Joffrey 

Get on with your life, looks like she has. People say they want to remain friends to imply there's no bad blood. Doesn't mean they want to grab drinks or watch a movie together. Read between the lines.

Originally Posted by dune 

Wanted to talk some things out with my ex after I ran into her at parties a couple of times recently...
"Hey x, do you already have plans for wednesday or thursday evening next week?"
Couple of hours later:
"Hey y, I already have plans"
A month ago she was going on about how of course she wants to stay friends...fuck bitches.

Originally Posted by dune 

Some more texting today. She says that I should have just asked her whether she wanted to talk sometime, and that she would have said yes. Then she blew up because apparently she keeps having to justify her behaviour to me. And so the saga continues.

Originally Posted by dune 

Haha yeah, I've known that for a while now. Very low lows, but high highs. Know what it looks like on the forum here, already knew what the advice was going to be, but needed a place to bitch/get it off my chest.