I broke up with my gf (general breakup thread) - Page 194

I would go gay for Couttsclient or Neoinfinitia.

physically or metaphorically?

And Neo or IS???

physically or metaphorically?

Metaphysically.

LOL please.

This relationship is doomed. Time and space will not fix things. She's not the one to marry. You will end up divorced. Move forward in your life with someone else.

I am way out of the loop, but whatever happened with the eason baby situation?

I have a semi good break experience. After breaking up with my gf of three years, I went to a dorm "party" (more like a get together), got drunk, apparently screamed out "bitches ain't shit" a few times, and passed out. There was a girl at this party who had also just broken up with her bf, and both she and I ended up spending the night at my friend's dorm because neither of us were in any condition to go home. next morning, we both wake up, she crawls into the bed I was in, and we fool around for a good two hours. i never regretted not having a condom on hand more than that time (that's why its only a semi good experience).

Anyways, she ended up going back to school and we've never seen each other since. immediately afterward, I felt so much better. Still missed my ex, but realized when one pair of legs close, another pair opens.

I posted a thread like 3-4 months back, she was (obviously) crazy and was trying to cuckold me thinking I would marry her. Fuck all the Eason doubters.

Ugh... My ex is getting here in a couple of hours - going to stay for 4 days and hang out.

This will be interesting... and painful.

then why'd you agree?

Well, it was never a formal clean break, we still see each other every few weeks (long distance), talk every day, etc.

Basically some bad shit happened, we both made mistakes, but we still love each other and are like super compatible. If other events outside of our control did not interfere, we'd probably be married right now.

So it's complicated.... Is there still hope? I don't know. I expect things will be resolved in one way or another over the next few months

I hope all works out. It sucks when things are out of your control and would otherwise be great if they weren't. Sounds like you're a good match and if it doesn't work, that's always a shame. From my limited experience, it's rare to find someone that you're actually compatible with rather than someone that you have to make yourself compatible with.

Thanks! Don't get me wrong, there are still issues and incompatibilities. It's just that the big things work, and the small things don't really bother me or her that much. If anything, small "bad" things translate to a bit of tension that keeps things interesting.. I don't know, maybe it will all blow up in my face one day. By the way, this is the chick I started hooking up with almost two years ago that there was all this secret drama with. If I only knew then what I know now, we really probably would be married now. There is a long thread out there somewhere from the past...

This is my situation. If i would have played my cards right we would likely be married by now. Lots of things happened out of our control that lead it issues that ultimately lead to our demise. I've been holding on to hope she would get over some of the stuff, but it doesn't look like it is going to happen. Sucks like you said, because we are really compatible, we both know it. Gotta move on, I guess.

Ugh, yeah.. Ask me again in a couple of months - I really feel like we are probably done sometimes and some issues are unsolvable, but there is sort of this thing of "we are right for each other, we are not dead, and that's all that maters?"

Fuck if I know...