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post #2806 of 3570
No, Macau is a culturally bankrupt shithole ever since the Chinese took over. It's dead like Saturday night in Fresno. I'd go there but I'd need to rent a hotel room and I don't feel like wasting 2k on that for one night.
post #2807 of 3570
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Originally Posted by Eason View Post

No, Macau is a culturally bankrupt shithole ever since the Chinese took over. It's dead like Saturday night in Fresno. I'd go there but I'd need to rent a hotel room and I don't feel like wasting 2k on that for one night.

The big brother is watching them...

I thought the illegal gambling , horing days were still du jour..
post #2808 of 3570
Nah since gambling and prostitution are legal there it's just no fun. frown.gif

Man I can't believe that bitch, I put myself out there and I lose my pimp hand.
post #2809 of 3570
Eason, you don't think in your transition from alpha male pimp to sweet boyfriend you became a little too sweet boyfriend?

You don't have to become totally spineless just because you are in a loved up monogamous relationship.
post #2810 of 3570
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Originally Posted by APK View Post

There's some middle ground between being a pussy and being a total dick, Hgalek. Unless this girl absolutely destroyed who you were as a person (unlikely), your recent posts are reading like someone who is overcompensating for some insecurities with false bravado. It's OK to hurt. You don't need to get serious with everyone you sleep with, but hey, those girls are people, too. Probably decent individuals, even.

I'm just being bitchy/false bravado/whathaveyou. I'm not very good at mistreating people, would never actually endorse cheating, and I probably won't run her through the ringer too badly. A few hookups, no promises, and then move on to the next one while keeping her on tap for booty calls. That's not particularly damaging, and if it is, she's got some learning to do anyway.

Broson- it might be time to sit the two of yall down, explain the situation, and then make some big decisions. There's no point in being heavily committed if she's not interested, but there might just be some miscommunication or misunderstanding that's worth addressing.
post #2811 of 3570
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Originally Posted by HgaleK View Post

My last two exes showed up at a gig that my friends were having at their place tonight. That's frustrating as hell. It wasn't any good seeing the the one from a few months ago. I'd made a point of a clean break just to help the healing process for the both of us. Seeing her again brought it all back, and that hurt like a motherfucker. I still love her.
The host said that they were only planning on staying there for half an hour or so, so I went out for a bite just to keep my sanity. They didn't leave, so I headed back to my place. I was going to be fucking a hot blonde bitch tonight, but now I don't even feel like sex. Mostly I'm just depressed. I'll be over it by the end of this weekend, and I'm starting tomorrow with a workout, but I would have liked to avoid this altogether. There's no lesson to be learned here. I already knew that seeing her would be a bad idea. I guess that this is just a chance for me to face minor adversity and grow as a person.
ffffuuuu.gifffffuuuu.gif. It only takes the smallest of things to relapse.
post #2812 of 3570
After not talking to her for 2 days, she now messages me and keeps asking what's going on and "what are we". I thought about just breaking up with her but instead I just told her that I took us too seriously before and now I won't do that. In Chinese this is called "Riding a donkey while looking for a horse." lol8[1].gif

edit: now she says that if I won't take her seriously might as well break up. I told her it's pretty clear she doesn't take us seriously. She said "the friends I'm going out with I don't want to introduce you to, that's why I didn't invite you" Right ok so why go out with them? Kick rocks.
Edited by Eason - 10/14/11 at 9:04pm
post #2813 of 3570
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Originally Posted by Eason View Post

After not talking to her for 2 days, she now messages me and keeps asking what's going on and "what are we". I thought about just breaking up with her but instead I just told her that I took us too seriously before and now I won't do that. In Chinese this is called "Riding a donkey while looking for a horse." lol8[1].gif
edit: now she says that if I won't take her seriously might as well break up. I told her it's pretty clear she doesn't take us seriously. She said "the friends I'm going out with I don't want to introduce you to, that's why I didn't invite you" Right ok so why go out with them? Kick rocks.

wherd

wtf is wrong with her friends that she wont introduce you to them?
post #2814 of 3570
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Originally Posted by Eason View Post

After not talking to her for 2 days, she now messages me and keeps asking what's going on and "what are we". I thought about just breaking up with her but instead I just told her that I took us too seriously before and now I won't do that. In Chinese this is called "Riding a donkey while looking for a horse." lol8[1].gif
edit: now she says that if I won't take her seriously might as well break up. I told her it's pretty clear she doesn't take us seriously. She said "the friends I'm going out with I don't want to introduce you to, that's why I didn't invite you" Right ok so why go out with them? Kick rocks.

Perhaps it's just a cultural thing, but if a girl didn't want to introduce me to her friends, even after I made it clear that I would like to meet them, I would think she's embarrassed of me. And her telling you that you two "might as well break up" in that context wreaks of someone wanting out but not wanting to be the bad guy who has to do the heavy lifting in ending the relationship.
post #2815 of 3570
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Originally Posted by NAMOR View Post

wherd
wtf is wrong with her friends that she wont introduce you to them?

They're her new nursing school friends so my only real guess is there's a guy she might have an interest in among them and thus doesn't want me to meet them. Anyway she said "why don't you tell me what you want now" and I told her I'd treat her as I'm treated and won't expect anything more. So now I should probably start looking for that horse.
post #2816 of 3570
fuck
post #2817 of 3570
wat
post #2818 of 3570
Somehow it all got turned around on me and I'm the bad guy because I didn't trust her and I hurt her etc.
post #2819 of 3570
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Originally Posted by Eason View Post

Somehow it all got turned around on me and I'm the bad guy because I didn't trust her and I hurt her etc.

Get over it ...

If you can..

Time is great healer..

Go out and keep yourself busy...
post #2820 of 3570
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Somehow it all got turned around on me and I'm the bad guy because I didn't trust her and I hurt her etc.

She's lyin
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