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I think the ultimate crazy one would have been the one who tried to cuckold me thinking I would marry her.
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Originally Posted by Eason View Post

I told her I feel like I'm just an separate accessory to her life when it's convenient for her. Am I a stoopid moron for thinking like this?

No, you're not; I had a gf who was a med student who did the same thing, and I'm assuming from the quote below we're both dealing with asian girls. At the end of the day school is the priority in their life (this particular kind of girl, not all asians obviously (noracist)), so they'll never comprehend guys whose priority is their woman. They'll claim you're 'needy' or whatever, but at the end of the day they're just emotionally dead inside and have no personality; I have a career equal if not more involved than medicine and I found the time and pleasure to spend with my girl, if they can't do the same than ditch them.
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Originally Posted by impolyt_one View Post

You're just reaching the end of the line with AzN girls and either need to find one ultimate crazy and submit, or give up.

Give up, or at least give up on the ones that live with their parents... those are some of the most incredibly spoiled and self-absorbed females I've ever met.
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Originally Posted by Eason View Post

I think the ultimate crazy one would have been the one who tried to cuckold me thinking I would marry her.

That was a surreal idea ...

A non-starter but a great surreal idea.
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Originally Posted by Eason View Post

OK so I've been seeing my gf about 1-2 times a week because she's in nursing school. She's busy, I get that. Last time two friends were visiting and I wanted my gf to meet them and come out with us. My friends wanted to go clubbing and I obliged them, but my gf didn't want to go with us and instead went out with her girlfriends. Quite often she will have dinner with/go out with her friends instead of meeting me- She has never once invited me out with her friends to meet them.
I asked about her schedule this weekend, she said that tomorrow night (Friday) she's going to have dinner with some friends, Saturday afternoon around 2pm she'll be free and we can meet around then, but she'll be going out with her friends again at night, and Sunday she'll be busy studying. Rinse and repeat. I got pissed off and let her know why, because she not once invited me out with them, even as a courtesy invite, or had me meet her friends who she is spending all this time with. I told her I feel like I'm just an separate accessory to her life when it's convenient for her. Am I a stoopid moron for thinking like this?

No you are right. But unless you're in love with her I don't see why you couldn't do the same. No need to make a big deal out of it. When you hang out with her it's just you and her. Then you hang out with your friends separately. If she doesn't mind then it's cool, if she does then you can mention how it's odd you never see her with her crew.

Edit- Now that I've read your subsequent posts, it appears she may simply be ashamed of you. Any girl not interested in showing off her new bf is weird.
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Originally Posted by Eason View Post

I think the ultimate crazy one would have been the one who tried to cuckold me thinking I would marry her.

Story time! Let's hear it icon_gu_b_slayer[1].gif



Maybe there's a cultural difference there? If I'm not dating a girl, but want to keep her around until she's sick of me, I'll do something similar. I keep her away from my friends so that they don't get any ideas about how important they are, my friends don't get invested in our relationship, they don't become mutual friends so that it's awkward when she realizes that she doesn't have a chance, and also have a little refuge from the rest of my life. That leaves me the option of going out and flirting, fucking, drinking, etc. in non-monogamous company, or coming back home to something slightly more meaningful.

I totally understand needing to keep lives somewhat separated and having some regular fun without your SO, but that's rather different than intentionally segregating them from your friends. I guess it works if you're dating casually, but if you're going to be dating casually, why not just play the entire field instead of being in a relationship with one halfassed committed person.

Edit: long story short, you totally are a separate accessory to her life. Go have fun with another bitch or three. She probably won't notice.
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Originally Posted by HgaleK View Post

Go have fun with another bitch or three. She probably won't notice.

Whoa, whoa. When did we adopt this attitude? I always thought you were one of the good ones. That chick sure did a real number on you.
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Originally Posted by Neo_Version 7 View Post

Whoa, whoa. When did we adopt this attitude? I always thought you were one of the good ones. That chick sure did a real number on you.

Trufax. I'm hurting like a bitch all over again just from having seen her last weekend. I was hoping it would be gone by now. I'm actually going to start stringing a chick along in a very similar manner to what was detailed above starting this Friday. Regular sex, modest emotional fulfillment, and zero chance for betrayal. Poor gal.
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Originally Posted by HgaleK View Post

Trufax. I'm hurting like a bitch all over again just from having seen her last weekend. I was hoping it would be gone by now. I'm actually going to start stringing a chick along in a very similar manner to what was detailed above starting this Friday. Regular sex, modest emotional fulfillment, and zero chance for betrayal. Poor gal.

Classy stuff.
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The problem with going for strange on the side is that it isn't what I want. I gave up having like 3 girlfriends for 1, but the 1 doesn't seems to really care that I'm so awesome.
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There's some middle ground between being a pussy and being a total dick, Hgalek. Unless this girl absolutely destroyed who you were as a person (unlikely), your recent posts are reading like someone who is overcompensating for some insecurities with false bravado. It's OK to hurt. You don't need to get serious with everyone you sleep with, but hey, those girls are people, too. Probably decent individuals, even.
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Originally Posted by APK View Post

those girls are people, too.
Whaaaaaaaaaaaaaat?

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post #2803 of 3570
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Originally Posted by Eason View Post

The problem with going for strange on the side is that it isn't what I want. I gave up having like 3 girlfriends for 1, but the 1 doesn't seems to really care that I'm so awesome.

You're chasing the one who is not interested ...

Typical hunter mentality..
post #2804 of 3570
Yeah, sue me. This weekend is going to suck, I could go to Macau and sleep with my friend there but in the end I probably won't feel any better if not worse.
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Originally Posted by Eason View Post

Yeah, sue me. This weekend is going to suck, I could go to Macau and sleep with my friend there but in the end I probably won't feel any better if not worse.

Macau must be a slut paradise...

Have a great week-end..
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