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Fack. I may be developing teh feelings sickness.
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Ex now says she doesn't have the feelings she thought she would and does not want to work it out anymore. She says she wants to meet other people and see whats out else is out there. I kinda had a feeling this would happen. Pretty disappointed. Been dating some other girls, but not that into them at this point. Ex still wants to cook dinner for me when she moves into her new apartment in 2 weeks. I have to believe, like mentioned earlier, she did this and entertained the thought of us for her own selfish, self serving reasons. I didn't want to believe it. She has told me she is depressed, not happy with her job, life, or friends. I really have strong feelings for her and was hoping it would work, despite all this I would genuinely like to marry her, but it now seems out ouf my hands...
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Originally Posted by RustyRyan View Post

Ex now says she doesn't have the feelings she thought she would and does not want to work it out anymore. She says she wants to meet other people and see whats out else is out there. I kinda had a feeling this would happen. Pretty disappointed. Been dating some other girls, but not that into them at this point. Ex still wants to cook dinner for me when she moves into her new apartment in 2 weeks. I have to believe, like mentioned earlier, she did this and entertained the thought of us for her own selfish, self serving reasons. I didn't want to believe it. She has told me she is depressed, not happy with her job, life, or friends. I really have strong feelings for her and was hoping it would work, despite all this I would genuinely like to marry her, but it now seems out ouf my hands...

Let it go ...

Needy men are never attractive.
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Is sleeping in bed with 2 naked girls considered cheating? I don't think it is, but I doubt I should tell the gf. I'm upset just thinking about it, I was in bed with 2 naked 21 year olds just cursing myself for having a gf.
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Originally Posted by fuji View Post

Is sleeping in bed with 2 naked girls considered cheating? I don't think it is, but I doubt I should tell the gf. I'm upset just thinking about it, I was in bed with 2 naked 21 year olds just cursing myself for having a gf.

Then break up?
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I want to impress randoms on the internet with tales of fiction.
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Originally Posted by gort View Post

I want to impress randoms on the internet with tales of fiction.

He's in college. This sort of thing isn't uncommon.
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Originally Posted by fuji View Post

Is sleeping in bed with 2 naked girls considered cheating? I don't think it is, but I doubt I should tell the gf. I'm upset just thinking about it, I was in bed with 2 naked 21 year olds just cursing myself for having a gf.

Just remember the last time you had an argument with your GF and decide to have a break from her to think about your relationship...

Bang the girls and decide after all you want to stay with your GF...

You haven't cheated because you were on a break...
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Originally Posted by lasbar View Post


Just remember the last time you had an argument with your GF and decide to have a break from her to think about your relationship...

Bang the girls and decide after all you want to stay with your GF...

You haven't cheated because you were on a break...

Yup, did this with the girl except it was her who didn't cheat and I who cheated. frown.gif

Still, if you allow yourself to be in that situation then you know you aren't in a serious relationship and you want out whether you realize it or not.
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Originally Posted by fuji View Post

Is sleeping in bed with 2 naked girls considered cheating? I don't think it is, but I doubt I should tell the gf. I'm upset just thinking about it, I was in bed with 2 naked 21 year olds just cursing myself for having a gf.

It means you are a homosexual. No straight man would just "sleep" in bed with two naked girls. Nothing wrong with it, but the sooner you realize your orientation the better for both you and your gf.
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Originally Posted by MetroStyles View Post


It means you are a homosexual. No straight man would just "sleep" in bed with two naked girls. Nothing wrong with it, but the sooner you realize your orientation the better for both you and your gf.

If they're ugly , fat , hairy and all the above, you might have slept but just after a wank or a BJ..
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Originally Posted by lasbar View Post


If they're ugly , fat , hairy and all the above, you might have slept but just after a wank or a BJ..

No straight man would sleep in the same bed as a fat hairy woman unless he is getting paid handsomely for it.
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Originally Posted by RustyRyan View Post

Ex now says she doesn't have the feelings she thought she would and does not want to work it out anymore. She says she wants to meet other people and see whats out else is out there. I kinda had a feeling this would happen. Pretty disappointed. Been dating some other girls, but not that into them at this point. Ex still wants to cook dinner for me when she moves into her new apartment in 2 weeks. I have to believe, like mentioned earlier, she did this and entertained the thought of us for her own selfish, self serving reasons. I didn't want to believe it. She has told me she is depressed, not happy with her job, life, or friends. I really have strong feelings for her and was hoping it would work, despite all this I would genuinely like to marry her, but it now seems out ouf my hands...

Don't try to convince her to stay. She's gone - that means you'll be having great, satisfying sex and relationships with other women - better, more loving, and attractive women. And fuck that "I'll still make you dinner" crap. It'll just prolong the pain. Cut her off completely for at least six months.
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Originally Posted by willpower View Post


Don't try to convince her to stay. She's gone - that means you'll be having great, satisfying sex and relationships with other women - better, more loving, and attractive women. And fuck that "I'll still make you dinner" crap. It'll just prolong the pain. Cut her off completely for at least six months.

+1. a year is better
post #2715 of 3570
You guys are spot on. Anytime we try and talk about the future I feel like a used car salesman and she claims I am "pushing". It's unfortunate because the time we have spent together lately has been really good but she made it clear she is not interested in getting back together at this time. As others have mentioned before, she likely tried to reconnect to stroke her ego and to feel wanted. I feel a bit better and take comfort knowing that know matter what I do, it will likely not change her mind.
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