Fuji, you need to walk away. You should have walked away months ago but do it now. Let her bitch, moan, cry, threaten suicide, whatever. Walk away now. You shouldn't be forced to deal with such obnoxiousness at your age with no serious commitment to her (i.e. no kids, marriage, etc.). ppllzz, don't trust a girl who snoops in your personal belongings. Cut her off. Nothing good will come of your scenario with those two people. If you manage to get her back, all that will happen is more drama. Walk away.