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post #1996 of 3570
Good for you, Fuji. She won't kill herself, she's just begging for attention. Ignore it.
post #1997 of 3570
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Told crazy girl I can't deal with her any more. She's been horrible to me lately and just treating me like a piece of shit and pretty much just using me. Trying to walk away now, can't keep seeing this girl. She'll probably threaten me with suicide again, but I just can't deal with her.

Good luck, fuji. This is a bold move, and quite brave based on what you've told us about her. This is a positive step for you.
post #1998 of 3570
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By the time I got to the hospital she was gone. She's home now, she's annoyed I was so worried about her and that she's perfectly fine and doesn't need looking after. I don't know what she expects me to do. She wants me around and to stay with her, but she's annoyed that I'm concerned about her because she feels bad that people are worried about her. Im gonna go see her tomorrow for lunch. I'm pretty much stuck with her. She's already has therapy and sees doctors weekly and is on meds, its not like im the only one looking after her.

you need to grow the fuck up and read some philosophy
post #1999 of 3570
Fuji, you need to walk away. You should have walked away months ago but do it now. Let her bitch, moan, cry, threaten suicide, whatever. Walk away now. You shouldn't be forced to deal with such obnoxiousness at your age with no serious commitment to her (i.e. no kids, marriage, etc.). ppllzz, don't trust a girl who snoops in your personal belongings. Cut her off. Nothing good will come of your scenario with those two people. If you manage to get her back, all that will happen is more drama. Walk away.
post #2000 of 3570
Everything is going really well, better than I had ever imagined actually. I mentioned earlier how she said she feels like shes falling in love with me all over again. Anyway, i'm really happy, but I cant help but have a nagging feeling in the back of my head...how can I trust her this time around? I dont want to talk to her about, for fear of looking insecure and not confident in what we have, and I dont want to trigger a flashback. I guess its just something I gotta get over myself, only time will tell.
post #2001 of 3570
Do you pick at scabs on your body?
post #2002 of 3570
What do you have to be insecure about? Enjoy it while you've got it, because trust me-- 1) it ain't gonna last forever, and 2) worrying and getting in your own head will only make it end sooner.
post #2003 of 3570
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Everything is going really well, better than I had ever imagined actually. I mentioned earlier how she said she feels like shes falling in love with me all over again.

Anyway, i'm really happy, but I cant help but have a nagging feeling in the back of my head...how can I trust her this time around?

I dont want to talk to her about, for fear of looking insecure and not confident in what we have, and I dont want to trigger a flashback.

I guess its just something I gotta get over myself, only time will tell.

You're trolling, right?

If you ain't... your pitiful. Do what you want man, but never say 100's of people never tried to help you.
post #2004 of 3570
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Anyway, i'm really happy, but I cant help but have a nagging feeling in the back of my head...how can I trust her this time around?
I'm glad you're happy, man. You should just enjoy it for what it is without worrying. Even if she backs out tomorrow, it doesn't change who you are as a person.

SOrry if that sounds sappy, but I'm drunk...
post #2005 of 3570
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Everything is going really well, better than I had ever imagined actually. I mentioned earlier how she said she feels like shes falling in love with me all over again. Anyway, i'm really happy, but I cant help but have a nagging feeling in the back of my head...how can I trust her this time around? I dont want to talk to her about, for fear of looking insecure and not confident in what we have, and I dont want to trigger a flashback. I guess its just something I gotta get over myself, only time will tell.
This is a shitty place to be in. I have tried to function in a relationship with this feeling but it never really goes away. It keeps nagging you until you finally break up and put the devil to rest. Even the smallest things will cause you to doubt this other person. I hope this isnt your case though
post #2006 of 3570
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Everything is going really well, better than I had ever imagined actually. I mentioned earlier how she said she feels like shes falling in love with me all over again.

Anyway, i'm really happy, but I cant help but have a nagging feeling in the back of my head...how can I trust her this time around?

I dont want to talk to her about, for fear of looking insecure and not confident in what we have, and I dont want to trigger a flashback.

I guess its just something I gotta get over myself, only time will tell.

You can't ever know for certain. Either learn to ignore the feeling and trust her or break it off.
post #2007 of 3570
Crazy girl is very angry. Haven't talked to her or contacted her though. She's saying she's gonna go get drunk and get with a gypsy. Thats not a very good threat really, its not like she's going off and finding someone good, who is gonna make me feel shit. I'm not really fussed if she goes and bangs a middle aged fat man in a caravan.
post #2008 of 3570
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Originally Posted by fuji View Post
Crazy girl is very angry. Haven't talked to her or contacted her though. She's saying she's gonna go get drunk and get with a gypsy. Thats not a very good threat really, its not like she's going off and finding someone good, who is gonna make me feel shit. I'm not really fussed if she goes and bangs a middle aged fat man in a caravan.



post #2009 of 3570
I'm presently working towards getting over a six year relationship I was forced to end several months ago due to her emotional instability. (I know, sounds like a dick thing to say, but her irrational reactions to situations where she didn't get what she wanted are enough for me to put it that way.) But whatever; experience builds character.
post #2010 of 3570
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Originally Posted by MarkI View Post
Everything is going really well, better than I had ever imagined actually. I mentioned earlier how she said she feels like shes falling in love with me all over again.

Anyway, i'm really happy, but I cant help but have a nagging feeling in the back of my head...how can I trust her this time around?

I dont want to talk to her about, for fear of looking insecure and not confident in what we have, and I dont want to trigger a flashback.

I guess its just something I gotta get over myself, only time will tell.

I look forward to hearing about the breakup in a month.
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