I broke up with my gf (general breakup thread)

[APK]

Her and I will always have that.

 

[uNiCoRnPriNcEsSx]

Originally Posted by APK

Nonsense. You must have missed my post about the time I unselfishly persuaded a former lover to board a plane with someone else, even though doing so meant I would never see her again and I would have to possibly incur the wrath of the Germans.

It's OK. Claude Rains and I became great friends afterward.

Must have skipped over it. that is pretty epic as well. I know how much it sucks cuz I let someone go as well.

But hay. I found new girls. Did you?

 

[Matt]

I find it interesting when people with uZaNaMeZ like this, who say 'cuz', 'hay', 'lols' and completely miss a really obvious classic movie reference choose to comment on the maturity of the posts of others.

Go watch Casablanca son. Bieber and LiLo are not in it, but you may enjoy it nonetheless.

 

[impolyt_one]

Originally Posted by Neo_Version 7

^ Who got custody of Minami?

Dog is still here with me, because she still isn't prepped to travel and so couldn't go. Gf expressed interest in having her shipped to her in Japan though, and it may be the best way to go, my life is kinda hectic and I know she will take good care of the dog and give her a nice life in Tokyo. It's a good city for having a dog in. They have a good master-dog relationship so I want them both to be happy, and so sending the dog along later may be the best option. It's also only a 1.5hr flight as opposed to something like 20 hrs if I had to ship the dog back to the US if ever I decided to move back to N. America, so we'll see.

Originally Posted by APK

Didn't this just happen a few months ago?

I think it did but she called me the next day that time and we got back together and skipped over the preceding breakup, and she came right back from Tokyo the next week. We broke up several times like that, actually. We had a pretty crazy relationship. She is awesome, she knows everything I talk about (and that is a feat, since I'm always talking about obscure ****) and she has a good sense of humor, and does some caring things for me once in awhile, but she didn't shower me in affection like I tend to want all the time. We sexed a ton but I like girls who come in the door and jump on me and say they missed me after 10 minutes. Instead we had some indescribable disconnect where I felt like she was just coming and going, disappearing everyday, and I felt like she was going out and being secret or something. I'm mad needy. Anyway, we did a lot of stuff, it was kind of hard to impress her because she was so posh, and a lot of the highs were not very high feeling during our relationship, but I can say that it made me a better man. She taught me some interesting things, gifted me some nice stuff, I've lived with a woman with the most beautiful body I will ever see in my lifetime perhaps, and she kept me working and moving forward.

This time though, it was really the right time to break up. We fight too much and she was getting meaner and making less sense, so I was ready to call it quits too. I dunno, she may come back, or I may move to Tokyo later if I get it back in me and I call her up on the phone, but I kind of doubt it for now. I don't know if I want to live in Tokyo again because I get kinda of suffocated feeling over there, and I still gotta work a lot more before I do something that expensive anyway. I kind of feel like settling down and maybe even having kids after two years of living with someone who was basically a housewife for me, but now that this relationship is over, I'm kind of at a loss.

I'm pretty bored, needless to say. I eat bad food now, drink too much, don't feel like going out and meeting people and it's too cold out right now to take the dog for walks. It's not heartbreak from the breakup, it's just plain boredom because I have no one to talk to or do stuff with, and I tend to talk a lot. Posted on facebook like crazy and I'm bored of that now too. The girl I like went on vacation to Thailand today for the next two weeks, I think I might let dizzhizz take over TOJ and I might go on vacation finally as well. Ideally I should go to Australia but Brisbane is underwater, so the people I'd like to see are probably a bit busy with life right now, needless to say. =\\

That girl I like though, I am seeing myself getting bored with her already. I've checked out her facebook, she leads an exceedingly boring life with too many friends and is too nice to people, and I don't get the sense that she is really dedicated to anything in particular, she just kind of exists and is boring. The polar opposite of my last girlfriend, who was mean and had a pretty cutting sense of humor, drove a Ferrari and wore avant garde clothes, was a bikini girl on Japanese TV, cooked French, kept her figure nicely toned, and listened to hard music. She was serious about everything, and I'm pretty love/hate with everything myself. I don't know if I can adjust to the Korean princess style. She looks awesome, like the kinds of Korean actresses on TV, but she's so sugar sweet, but I'm like this guy drinking whisky and smoking a bunch of cigarettes in my black leather jacket, have my long hair and facial hair... her Korean parents would wonder about me.


I have an exgf from my college days, with whom I had this really short but intensely sweet relationship with... we broke up because of some communication failures and a temporary long distance setup. It was pretty heartbreaking for me, I lost my way and kinda fucked my life for several years after that, came back to Korea and just dabbled in different girls and didn't really do anything in life too seriously to try and get my mind off it, and I still couldn't, it took like 4 years.
Anyway, she was also a Tokyo girl, and they tend to cut you off after a breakup so they can keep moving on, very business-like. I didn't talk to her for maybe 4 years or so, but one day she emailed me out of the blue, maybe right around the time I was finally getting over her, and started talking to me again, she had ended up moving to Sydney to go to school, she is still down there now. I think she is a bit lost in life now too, and she admitted regretting breaking up with me. She and I have a kind of soulful connection, I was even thinking of her at that moment she emailed me, we have almost the same home phone numbers in Japan and the US, a lot of weird coincidental stuff. I don't know. If there were really soul mates, this girl would probably pass for mine.
I could call this girl up and tell her to come to me, but it's been 6 years since I last saw her and life has obviously taken a lot of different turns for both of us. I'm not considering it strongly right now, but I guess it's a possibility.

 

[ysc]

After three and a bit years with my university girl friend we broke up, we were moving to different places and thing were not working perfectly anyway. It was mutual, but it hit me a lot harder than I expected and coincided with some other more serious stuff in my life whilst she seemed to be having a pretty fun time.

Somewhat over a year later and she is living where I am... and we started sleeping together occasionally a couple of months ago. At first it was making me happy but now it is beginning to depress me. We are too busy to see each other very often and she is being awkward about the times we could meet up. I knew it would work out like this, took me most of the year to get over it the first time round, I am an idiot.

 

[edinatlanta]

Originally Posted by rosemarybabe

I broke up with my bf. He is not care for me. But sometime, I am still missing him! Damn!!!

Sup.

 

[robotosan]

Originally Posted by rosemarybabe

I broke up with my bf. He is not care for me. But sometime, I am still missing him! Damn!!!

babygirl.... how are you doing?

 

[impolyt_one]

I'm also stuck with NIB women's shoes that I gave her and she never wore. =\\

A pair of Alaias and a pair of Margielas; they're different sizes as well, so they're not going to the same person...

 

[fuji]

Crazy girl may now have to go stay at a mental hospital for a bit. Its kind of sad.

 

[uNiCoRnPriNcEsSx]

i had a breakup with my gf. She's seeing someone else now, but surprisingly...

i was okay with it after browsing through the fake boobs thread on sf.

i think we just have to find someone else to bone and take our minds off of them.

 

[Nil]

Originally Posted by impolyt_one

I'm also stuck with NIB women's shoes that I gave her and she never wore. =\\ A pair of Alaias and a pair of Margielas; they're different sizes as well, so they're not going to the same person...
I had some lingerie I bought for an ex but we broke up before I could give them to her. It took me a few years, but I finally found a girl who was a comparable size and well, I had no qualms about regifting them.

 

[Big Pun]

Broke up with a girl, she says shes not good enough for me. Told me just now she loves me and would do anything for me. I have no idea what to say.

 

[Eason]

Originally Posted by acidboy

so you found someone new yet?

Haha I have a friend who sometimes warms my bed, but we're both pretty clear on me not being interested in a relationship. Anyway even if things go awry, I'm leaving out of the country in 4 months. Score!

 

[Eason]

Originally Posted by impolyt_one

lul, I'm posting in sucky thread of the styfo

My gf and I called it quits after two years. We lived together so the split and the cleanup was harder, she went back to Japan today. Probably never see her again, but she will be fine, and so will I. We're both stronger than we should be, probably.
Went out on mild no pressure date with really cute girl tonight, lots of fun, good talk, some touching and hand holding and sealed deals, but no pressure to really have to go through if I don't need to - ******* ain't paved in swarovski and I can handle a bit of alone time if I need. We'll see how tomorrow pans out.

Aw damn dude, sorry to hear it. (Though, I think all of SF saw this coming)

 

[Joffrey]

Originally Posted by impolyt_one

I'm also stuck with NIB women's shoes that I gave her and she never wore. =\\

A pair of Alaias and a pair of Margielas; they're different sizes as well, so they're not going to the same person...

Post on ebay, purseforum or buy & sell here. You'll find a buyer.