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10/15/09 at 3:14am

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A year, a month and some days and I'm still dreaming about her. Stupid fucking emotions. Shit ain't worth it. Castration is the way to go.

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10/15/09 at 4:30am

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A year, a month and some days and I'm still dreaming about her. Stupid fucking emotions. Shit ain't worth it. Castration is the way to go.

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10/15/09 at 5:36am

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Originally Posted by Tokyo Slim

A year, a month and some days and I'm still dreaming about her. Stupid fucking emotions. Shit ain't worth it. Castration is the way to go.

ya, I feel ya there bud. It's been four years since me and Miss Hong Kong broke up. I saw her a week ago and my heart leapt into my mouth. I'm not over her at all. Fuck.

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10/15/09 at 5:57am

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Prada_Ferragamo, any details why?

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10/15/09 at 6:17am

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What's her phone number?

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10/15/09 at 8:26am

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you really went out with Miss Hong Kong?

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10/15/09 at 11:54am

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haha - no. My ex in Hong Kong. I never put their names up here, but since I mentioned her in the previous post as the one in HK, I just refered to her as Miss HK.

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10/15/09 at 12:11pm

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Originally Posted by APK

The friends thing doesn't really work out. You might be able to be cordial or friendly with them, but it's an oddity when two people are able to actually be good friends following a long/intense romantic relationship. My logic has always been that if you were able to be such good friends, the relationship probably wouldn't have fallen apart.

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I have to agree with what everyone has said above with being friends. Too awkward.

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hmmm

lemme think.

I've kinda been a serial relationship guy for the past decade, punctuated by intermittent bursts of singledom upon which the how we roll thread has hinged.

1st of those gfs - 4 yrs together - ended on decent 'weve just grown apart terms' - we are still friends and chat regularly on line. There was a little animosity for a while, but we're all good and continue to think highly of each other.

2nd of those gfs - 2 yrs together - ended very very hostile, patched up in due course, and hung out last week in HK. We're ok, but there is still a lot between us. I'm still in love with that fucking girl, and her me...but there is a lot of crap between us.

3rd - 1.5 yrs together - ended very hostile. She ignores me on sight and told my staff a couple of months ago that I 'destroyed her life'. She was fucking crazy. Stories of her conduct have been documented on here in the past.

4th - 2 yrs together - the start of this thread. We're pretty friendly. She is now dating one of my friends, and with my sincerest best wishes. It is occasionally awkward, but we have all been grown ups about it, and honestly, she's great, he's great, go over there and be great together.

4.5 - just like 6mths together - ended when she left the country (see upthread) and on good terms. Terms promptly deteriorated. See previous post.

So I guess that means I have about a 50% stay as friends/friendly ratio with my exes, generally taking a bit of time to settle down....

Hmm, I've had similar experiences. Still have trouble communicating with an ex I've spent years and years with. She's married now and doesn't feel it's appropriate to keep in touch. But this new breakup, we were like the golden couple, everyone thought we were gonna make babies and get married. So far we've been super friendly, talked yesterday for an hour, seems like we both are happy and sure that this is the way to go.

So I am really hoping we can make it as friends.

Anyway, details on the crazy broad? (bolded)

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Originally Posted by Tokyo Slim

A year, a month and some days and I'm still dreaming about her. Stupid fucking emotions. Shit ain't worth it. Castration is the way to go.

Naaah, it gets better. But really, fucking a ton of other girls helps greatly.

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10/15/09 at 2:02pm

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Prada_Ferragamo, any details why?

Well she just came over from China a few years ago. So she's one of those pretty girls who's alittle spoiled and needed all of the attention. I don't blame her, but I needed my space from time to time. She never understood why that is. We argued alot over the stupidest shit. It just added up I guess eventually. She liked to hear me saying sweet things, but I am more about actions than yapping. Now I look back, I guess I should have said more to her than I did. She did care for me alot and held me through some of the toughest times of my life. I never realized how important she is/was to me just until we have broken up.

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10/15/09 at 4:05pm

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What's this babe's number? Look, I'm Italian, I can help.

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10/16/09 at 2:17am

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Anyway, details on the crazy broad?

umm well we always fought, I wont get into that. That was crazy enough. She was a lawyer, so I never won a single argument. If I can give you one piece of advice to take through life it is this: Never date a lawyer. After we broke up, she really hit the roof though. Was calling and texting and emailing like crazy (alternate between i love you please come back and please die and leave my country). I ignored everything. Then she decided her next plan of attack would be to call my staff and tell them that every night, I was taking her home, picking up hookers and banging them when I got back to my place. To. my. staff. Then, when I met someone else, given that it's a small world after all, she knew my new gf's sister. She took to calling her and all their mutual friends and telling them that every day at lunchtime, I was banging my staff. It was seriously fucked up - we walked in to a dinner party one night and all conversation instantly stopped - everyone was talking about how This New Boy Matt fucks his staff and hookers every night. I never knew I had the energy.

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10/16/09 at 2:52am