Wrd. Is meeting chicks this difficult nowadays I mean, I was no Cassanova but I don't recall me or any friends having so much trouble meeting girls that we ever really sat down and talked about "game" or read books or any of this other stuff. Don't you single guys just go up to a girl, have some small talk, see where it goes and take it from there? Do you really go into the situation with a "game plan"? What happens if your plan goes to shit, do you improvise or just move on? I remember being able to tell whether you had a chance with a girl or not within a few minutes of talking to her or even just from glances across a room, whatever happened to that, is it antiquated now or is this stuff miostly for guys that are introverted and have trouble making small talk?