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post #1 of 76
11/29/08 at 2:26am
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post #2 of 76
11/29/08 at 2:29am
Haha, you have landed yourself in a bit of a pickle. Just do lunch/coffee initially. If you do dinner, there is a good chance that she will want to have a few drinks and it would look awkward if you were sipping on coke the entire night. Do lunch, and go from there. Good luck.

This thread could get interesting...
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post #3 of 76
11/29/08 at 2:34am
Take her out to dinner, make a joke of it and be honest. It's going to come up eventually, it's better to just get it out of the way.
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post #4 of 76
11/29/08 at 2:40am
Say you're straight-edge.
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post #5 of 76
11/29/08 at 2:41am
Nothing wrong with dinner but when I was 18 (about 18 years ago). Taking a girl out to a fancy high end dinner on a first date was a bit much. Dinner in a fun hip resteraunt would be more the way to go. Have fun.
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post #6 of 76
11/29/08 at 2:49am
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Originally Posted by hyppy View Post
So I'm 18 in college I took a class with a girl I think she is 20 or so. I'm pretty sure she likes me so I asked her to go out for drinks. She said that she would love to. My question is I'm not of legal drinking age (she is) so I can't really take her to a bar. Should I ask her for lunch in one of the upscale downtown restaurants or can I just invite her for dinner?

Well, the good news is (at least in canada) that an upscale restaurant probably won't card you if you try to order wine. I remember having champagne at one when i was like 13.
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post #7 of 76
11/29/08 at 2:54am
dude youre in college and dont have a fake? how do you survive?

thats awesome she said yes to going out for drinks with you. now make it happen. talk to your friends and figure out where you can get a fake id, fast. a fancy dinner for a first date is definitely a bit much
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post #8 of 76
11/29/08 at 3:17am
Kudos to you for asking in the first place.

Lunch and coffee are much more casual and comfortable for a "getting you know you" sort of situation, in my opinion. There's too much expectation and preconception about the dinner date. Ask her to grab lunch with you somewhere fun like an outdoor café, sushi bar or somewhere where you're comfortable. If you hit it off, you can always move to the nearest coffee shop or Starbucks to continue your conversation - again, another casual environment; not intimidating or awkward.
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post #9 of 76
11/29/08 at 3:26am
Have drinks together in your dorm room. Classy.
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post #10 of 76
11/29/08 at 3:41am
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Have drinks together in your dorm room. Classy.

Or Sketchy.
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post #11 of 76
11/29/08 at 4:00am
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Originally Posted by JeffsWood View Post
Nothing wrong with dinner but when I was 18 (about 18 years ago). Taking a girl out to a fancy high end dinner on a first date was a bit much. Dinner in a fun hip resteraunt would be more the way to go. Have fun.

depends on his finances.

however, if he was rich, I doubt he would be asking.. oops o.O
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post #12 of 76
11/29/08 at 7:42am
If you get a fake ID now, you can use it for almost 3 years.
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post #13 of 76
11/29/08 at 9:22am
No way to put the rohypnol in then.
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post #14 of 76
11/29/08 at 9:40am
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Originally Posted by Neo_Version 7 View Post
Say you're straight-edge.

haha.

in all seriousness, just take her out for a nice healthy lunch and coffee!
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post #15 of 76
11/29/08 at 11:18am
Do what the gays do: just ask her if she wants to fuck.
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