No fxh is much meaner, just more subtle.
Forget The Tie Bar, forget MJ Bale, check out Henry Carter for your tie needs. If they are not met there try Vanda. If neither of these meet your needs branch out to Drakes (if you can afford it). If not of these meet your needs, esp. when starting out, perhaps reconsider your needs. 3 great ties trump 100 you are not happy with.*
*Obviously there are other great places to get a tie out there.