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post #1 of 95
11/13/08 at 4:33pm
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For reference, I'm 26. I am around a lot of people 10+ years older than I am, through work and coaching/reffing/umping youth sports. I have had the opportunity to explore the realm and over the past year and half, have. I've always been attracted to older women, for the usual reasons: experienced, know what they want, mature, don't play games, etc, etc.

Well I must say, that I'm starting to think it's all a myth. I just ended it with my fourth "older" woman (8 years older). All four of them have completely disappointed me in all aspects of the reasons I'm attracted to them in the first place. Terrible in bed, wishy-washy, immature, psycho, needy, clingy, etc seems to be common with them!

It's gotten to the point where I think I'm done with it. If there are older women out there like what I fantasize about, they surely aren't looking for a younger lover. If a physical relationship is all I want, there are plenty of younger, tighter bodied women out there. "Dirty thirties" and "sexual prime" my ass!

Anyone else share the same disappointment about "older women"?
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post #2 of 95
11/13/08 at 4:49pm
Take two of these and post us in the morning

http://www.styleforum.net/showpost.p...&postcount=184
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post #3 of 95
11/13/08 at 7:07pm
Dude, you're crushing Conne's dreams. Have a heart.
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post #4 of 95
11/13/08 at 8:20pm
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Terrible in bed, wishy-washy, immature, psycho, needy, clingy, etc seems to be common with them!
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women
Did you think they stopped being women at 30?
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post #5 of 95
11/13/08 at 8:58pm
You're missing the bigger confounding variable. Why are they in their 30's-40's and still single? Because they're
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Terrible in bed, wishy-washy, immature, psycho, needy, clingy
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post #6 of 95
11/13/08 at 9:03pm
Women in their 40's are generally not as flexible as women in their 20's.
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post #7 of 95
11/13/08 at 9:08pm
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Women in their 40's are generally not as flexible as women in their 20's.

Well, some parts are.
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post #8 of 95
11/13/08 at 9:09pm
Im 21 and I went out with a 29 year old chick for a few months. She was the most immature woman I have ever dated.
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post #9 of 95
11/13/08 at 9:11pm
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Originally Posted by FashionTragedy View Post
For reference, I'm 26. I am around a lot of people 10+ years older than I am, through work and coaching/reffing/umping youth sports. I have had the opportunity to explore the realm and over the past year and half, have. I've always been attracted to older women, for the usual reasons: experienced, know what they want, mature, don't play games, etc, etc.

Well I must say, that I'm starting to think it's all a myth. I just ended it with my fourth "older" woman (8 years older). All four of them have completely disappointed me in all aspects of the reasons I'm attracted to them in the first place. Terrible in bed, wishy-washy, immature, psycho, needy, clingy, etc seems to be common with them!

It's gotten to the point where I think I'm done with it. If there are older women out there like what I fantasize about, they surely aren't looking for a younger lover. If a physical relationship is all I want, there are plenty of younger, tighter bodied women out there. "Dirty thirties" and "sexual prime" my ass!

Anyone else share the same disappointment about "older women"?

your post sounds juvenile at the least, as well as inexperienced.

not that i condone sleeping around (that was not what i was referring your inexperience to), but just knowing people in general.

i know alot of 30 something women both married and single who have those desirable characteristics we all search for. that's why some are married and some are single due to their pickiness and/or other priorities at their current time.

the ones you 'dated' or slept with perhaps were just basically what you describe them to be, needy, immature, clingy, etc.
i guess my point is, youre looking at it the wrong way. they accepted sleeping with you or dating you maybe because they cant find anyone else.

perhaps it is not "the older women" myth

but rather "women who choose me (fashiontragedy)" myth
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post #10 of 95
11/13/08 at 9:16pm
Yep older women are crazy. Either they never got married and are jaded or they are divorced and jaded.

As far as being good in bed, somehow it seems women think just because they have a pussy they are good. I find very few have taken the time to really learn how to fuck and others just seem insulted or uninterested in learning to make love.

I find the women that fuck the best are emotionaly fucked up younger women with daddy complexes.
But just use em for sex and run away fast.

The best though!!! Is to find a kindhearted woman who is willing to learn to fuck like a porn start. Those are the ones you marry.
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post #11 of 95
11/13/08 at 9:21pm
Some of the wildest women I've ever been with were in their 40s. They do more than women in their 20s and they're enthusiastic as hell.
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post #12 of 95
11/13/08 at 9:26pm
^+1. amazing. had a 42 year old at 21 and haven't recovered yet.
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post #13 of 95
11/13/08 at 9:29pm
Ah, mine was 46 when I was 27 (most of the older women I had been with at that point where in their mid to late 30s). I still think about her the both nights I was with her. The things that girl did... Last month I dipped into the 40s pool again after a long absence and once again the one I was with was pretty good. So enthusiastic. I wish most in their 20s could go like that.
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post #14 of 95
11/13/08 at 9:49pm
These stories about older women have me
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post #15 of 95
11/13/08 at 9:51pm
Mine was 41 when I was 27. It was great for about 6 months. Then it went downhill fast.
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