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post #1 of 35
10/16/08 at 11:43am
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Would you date a girl who came out of a long term relationship? She's been single for about 4 month and she said that she was the one who ended the last relationship. She assured me that her ex is out of the picture completely.
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post #2 of 35
10/16/08 at 11:57am
Stop being so fucking calculating, you like her or not?
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post #3 of 35
10/16/08 at 11:58am
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I do. I enjoy being with her every min.
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post #4 of 35
10/16/08 at 11:59am
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Stop being so fucking calculating, you like her or not?

That's the feeling I've gotten from all the recent "Should I fuck/date/masturbate to her/stalk her" threads.
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post #5 of 35
10/16/08 at 12:00pm
I don't see this being negative, if she's a nice girl in the head and exteriorly then I don't see this getting in the way of dating. Especially, 4 months seems like plenty of time to get over it, she's probably wanting to just start a fresh by now. She did end it as well... Rebound sex can be some of the best type and wilder since the previous relationship may have gotten routine or somehow was not really satisfying. If she seems right I'd go for it, she may bring some fresh air in your life.
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post #6 of 35
10/16/08 at 12:05pm
I just don't get this, 4 months!! WF is the problem!!! For all you know she's been sleeping with every taxi driver she met for 5 yrs and you focus on the fucking 4 months after a relationship!! WTF is wrong with you people. You're not time travelers, you're not dating a person's past although it's always be there you'll never know exactly what it is. You like her, stick your penis in her vagina and be done with it.
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post #7 of 35
10/16/08 at 12:08pm
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I just don't get this, 4 months!! WF is the problem!!! For all you know she's been sleeping with every taxi driver she met for 5 yrs and you focus on the fucking 4 months after a relationship!! WTF is wrong with you people. You're not time travelers, you're not dating a person's past although it's always be there you'll never know exactly what it is. You like her, stick your penis in her vagina and be done with it.
Didn't you learn in school that when you have sex with a person, you are having sex with all of the people they have had sex with, and all of the people they have had sex with, and so on. Man, just thinking about the thousands, perhaps hundreds of thousands, of men and women I have boned gets me all silly. Seriously, if you like her, date her. I kind of question whether she would be interested if she know this is the kind of worry you had.
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post #8 of 35
10/16/08 at 12:13pm
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Originally Posted by erdawe View Post

Rebound sex can be some of the best type and wilder since the previous relationship may have gotten routine or somehow was not really satisfying. If she seems right I'd go for it, she may bring some fresh air in your life.

i think rebound sex is out surely after 2 momths she proabably had her rebound fling and thus he has lost his chance anythign really weird.
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post #9 of 35
10/16/08 at 12:16pm
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Didn't you learn in school that when you have sex with a person, you are having sex with all of the people they have had sex with, and all of the people they have had sex with, and so on. Man, just thinking about the thousands, perhaps hundreds of thousands, of men and women I have boned gets me all silly.

Seriously, if you like her, date her. I kind of question whether she would be interested if she know this is the kind of worry you had.


Seriously I'm as analytical as you'll get but some people just decorticate the wrong subjects. Reminds me of all the retards (no offense to people with mental disabilities, they'd surely manage) who don't know what to wear to a fucking interview. I mean asking what you should wear to an Hindu wedding, ok maybe, but an interview. WTF!!!
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post #10 of 35
10/16/08 at 12:18pm
If you don't want your girl to have a past beside her barbies go for nuns or 12 y/o. I'd be wary of the nuns though, they used to date Jesus and bobos are a scary bunch.
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post #11 of 35
10/16/08 at 12:18pm
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Seriously I'm as analytical as you'll get but some people just decorticate the wrong subjects. Reminds me of all the retards (no offense to people with mental disabilities, they'd surely manage) who don't know what to wear to a fucking interview. I mean asking what you should wear to an Hindu wedding, ok maybe, but an interview. WTF!!!
What should I wear to an interview for a singing job at a Hindu wedding, and can it be purchased at Jos. A Banks or with a Brooks Brothers corporate discount?
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post #12 of 35
10/16/08 at 12:20pm
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What should I wear to an interview for a singing job at a Hindu wedding, and can it be purchased at Jos. A Banks or with a Brooks Brothers corporate discount?

grey or navy suit (single breasted), white shirt, rep tie and black captoes. You can wear that stuff anywhere according to some (check out gallery opening or whatev for some good laughs).
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post #13 of 35
10/16/08 at 12:23pm
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i think rebound sex is out surely after 2 momths she proabably had her rebound fling and thus he has lost his chance anythign really weird.
Good point, forgot about the time and just focused on being out of a long relationship when I was posting. So yeah, I agree that ship's definitely already set sail.
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post #14 of 35
10/16/08 at 12:39pm
I have nothing to add except +1 to Fuuma and I had to look up "decorticate"
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post #15 of 35
10/16/08 at 1:03pm
yeah, go for it but realize that girl has serious baggage. three years with one person is a lot of time and you are def inheriting that guy to some degree in your new potential relationship.

be aware of the glow of everything feeling so great, it might be false

i say this from personal experience and a situation that sounds very similar

i could go on on but, basically ask those awkward questions. "are you over him" "when was the last time you were talking and about what?" they might suck and put you both in a weird position but they might also save you A LOT of heartache in the long run.
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