Arnach sure has his head on straight (I know, I know, "that's what she said!"), obviously doing the right thing and taking the high road. I never understood people who allowed pics of themselves in compromising situations, you'd have a tough time finding a pic of me in a family photo. Also, the guy did arnach a favor but he is still rather a prick in that he could have gotten his message across without resorting to those types of pics. As calm as arnach is about this, no one wants to see their SO of five years in those types of pics.