Originally Posted by Gravitas
Shit is not cool even when it is ass-grabbing. But excusing it is even worse. So if you take a wrong turn and end up in the ghetto you deserve to be shot? Or if a girl wears a low-cut dress she is asking, nee begging, to get raped?
Overall, teach him a lesson. Your reaction was warranted at the very least.
God, are you even trying that bullshit? You may think that switching out the word rape in my post is witty and clever, but it's just putting words in my mouth in an attempt to use a dramatic tactic instead of a real argument.
I said clearly that I don't approve of any
woman being molested, but if you conciously decide to hang out in a place that is known for and frequented for a bit of grab ass then you need to accept that it might happen.
Even though I am straight I have been to gay clubs which are known for being meat markets where people get quite physical. I go (with gay friends) knowing this, and when my ass gets grabbed, I accept that it comes as part of the package (no pun). I also clearly said that the OP was right in confronting him, but this jackass mentality of "aint no-one gonna touch my woman" (coming more from the peanut gallery responses to this thread than the OP) is neanderthal.
No, I don't condone guys grabbing my girlfriend's ass, but if I were to take her to a Belushis or Walkabout (crap London bars with ass grabbing atmospheres), then both she and I would go knowing that either one of our asses might get grabbed. She is also grown woman who knows how to handle herself and doesnt have to come running for help when the some guy at the bar gets slightly
out of line.