Eric, Dude, chill. You said that he was at the urinal. Maybe he has stage fright or something, and couldn't go with you there. And/or be he is a little scared of you. Obviously, you are not his biggest fan, and aren't hiding that fact particularly well. If you really want him to start avoiding you, though, instead of the other way around, follow Slim's suggestion. I guarantee that that will do the trick. J's suggestion is pretty good too, and just as likely, if not more, it land you in the big house, where, seeing that you are posting on something called the "Styleforum", will probably afford you many, many, *alternative* experiences. Personally, I always take it as a compliment when gay dudes hit on me. I just say, "Thanks man, but I'm straight." Everyone's cool. Actually, sometimes I'll say "Thanks man, but I'm straight. By the way, I love the way that pale pink shirt sets off your suit. And yeah, great Lattanzis too." That confuses them.