Do you have any decent v-neck sweaters? Nice shoes, trousers, button-up (or maybe even an OCBD), maybe a tie (depending on shirt choice), and a cotton sweater looks "nice" without being formal.
I'd much rather wear something like that than a full suit; like you said, that's overdoing it a bit.
Thanks for the reply. I have all of the above, and I was considering something along those lines.
But I'm actually starting to reconsider the suit. Whats the worst that could happen if I overdo it? She tells me that I didn't have to wear it and thats that.
Can anyone think of a reason why overdoing it could be a bad thing?