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post #28261 of 33197

Accidentally posted part of this on the Streetwear quick question thread, but I have a professional headshot coming up and need to select a tie.  I will be wearing a navy suit and white spread collar shirt.  I'm leaning toward either of the red ties but feel that I don't have an ideal tie for a portrait in my wardrobe.  Thoughts?

 

post #28262 of 33197
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Originally Posted by mianmannoi View Post


Pocket square is a lot of downside and tiny, unlikely, upside.

Unless you get extremely lucky with your interviewer your pocket square will either be unnoticed or seen as ostentatious or oddball. I know that I personally would hold it against an interviewee, even though I kind of like pocket squares.

 

I think you're wrong on this front.


A white linen square in a TV fold is not ostentatious. It makes a navy suit much sharper. I'm not going to grab a bright silk square and put it into a poof or anything. I'd have to respectfully disagree on this one.

Peak lapels would stand out way more. I'm just considering my options here!

post #28263 of 33197

Peak lapels are par for the course on DB suits, and thus don't stand out at all.

post #28264 of 33197

The only interview a notch lapel DB suit is appropriate for is one where you're trying to convince a bureaucrat to let you adopt a child, and also it's 1981 and you're James Caan in Thief.

 

Not that I'll ever have a job interview I'll wear a suit for, but I avoid DB in general if I want to broadcast any "normal" message, and I'd worry about the linen square. It would certainly make it obvious that you care about clothes.

post #28265 of 33197
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Originally Posted by ridethecliche View Post
 

 

I think you're wrong on this front.


A white linen square in a TV fold is not ostentatious. It makes a navy suit much sharper. I'm not going to grab a bright silk square and put it into a poof or anything. I'd have to respectfully disagree on this one.

Peak lapels would stand out way more. I'm just considering my options here!

I didn't say they're not sharp.  Nor did I say that they are ostentatious.  Like I said, I like pocket squares.  

 

But if some kid came in for an interview wearing a pocket square I'd think he was likely to be annoying to work with and it would definitely be a negative and make me less likely to give him an offer.    

 

Same person in the same outfit with the same pocket square socially it would probably be interesting. 

 

I didn't notice a question about peak lapels, unless you mean peak due to double breastedness.  I think an ordinary notch lapel 2 piece suit is the way to go. 

 

 

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Originally Posted by YRR92 View Post
 

. . . I avoid DB in general if I want to broadcast any "normal" message, and I'd worry about the linen square. It would certainly make it obvious that you care about clothes.

 

Exactly.  


Edited by mianmannoi - 7/15/14 at 8:41pm
post #28266 of 33197
My question was more related to whether a potash lapel db is weird for interviews. I'm okay with wearing a PS. Lol I'm glad you can tell I'd be annoying to work with based on one factoid. Good thing this isn't for a job.

I wear a PS almost every time I wear a jacket to work so I wouldn't feel self conscious at all.

I'll stay away from the db. My question was more related to if dbs are seemingly ostentatious.


I'll take a trip to the tailor to see how much leeway I have for the suit when it gets a little closer. It's a 40 and I'm shocked it's right already!

Thanks gents.
post #28267 of 33197
I also wouldn't wear a double breasted suit or a pocket square to an interview. Best to be more conservative.
post #28268 of 33197

I am having a MTM midnight blue, shawl collar tux for my wedding in two months. Shoes... my bride-to-be has me half convinced on these Mezlan shoes. "Daniele" line, glass suede (black suede with glassy beads throughout), as something I can wear formally and in the future for a variety of functions. http://shop.nordstrom.com/s/mezlan-daniele-cap-toe-derby/3318141?cm_cat=datafeed&cm_ite=mezlan_'daniele'_cap_toe_derby:564857&cm_pla=shoes:men:oxfords&cm_ven=Google_Product_Ads&mr:referralID=aa4d7c16-0ca6-11e4-b7d4-001b2166c62d&origin=pla Is this too much of a deviant from tradition?  Too douchey? Any thoughts? (if it's worth anything, for better or worse, they're on sale by about 40% in the chicago mezlan store)

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my bride-to-be has me half convinced on these Mezlan shoes. "Daniele" line, glass suede (black suede with glassy beads throughout), as something I can wear formally and in the future for a variety of functions.
Love her. Honor her. Cherish her.

But don't let her dress you. Her understanding of which shoes to wear with a tuxedo is... imperfect.
post #28270 of 33197
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Originally Posted by Speedy321 View Post
 

Accidentally posted part of this on the Streetwear quick question thread, but I have a professional headshot coming up and need to select a tie.  I will be wearing a navy suit and white spread collar shirt.  I'm leaning toward either of the red ties but feel that I don't have an ideal tie for a portrait in my wardrobe.  Thoughts?

 

 

None of the above.  I'm not averse to a shiny tie now and then, but they're harder to tie in a neat knot, and will look cheap and flashy in your photo.  A challis or madder would be good.  If you're going with a navy suit, I'd suggest something in burgundy or brown.  SF orthodoxy would also suggest a light blue shirt over white, but there's nothing wrong with a classic white shirt.

 

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I am having a MTM midnight blue, shawl collar tux for my wedding in two months. Shoes... my bride-to-be has me half convinced on these Mezlan shoes. "Daniele" line, glass suede (black suede with glassy beads throughout), as something I can wear formally and in the future for a variety of functions. http://shop.nordstrom.com/s/mezlan-daniele-cap-toe-derby/3318141?cm_cat=datafeed&cm_ite=mezlan_'daniele'_cap_toe_derby:564857&cm_pla=shoes:men:oxfords&cm_ven=Google_Product_Ads&mr:referralID=aa4d7c16-0ca6-11e4-b7d4-001b2166c62d&origin=pla Is this too much of a deviant from tradition?  Too douchey? Any thoughts? (if it's worth anything, for better or worse, they're on sale by about 40% in the chicago mezlan store)

 

Listen to Uncle Michael.  That's an awful thing to do to yourself.  Black oxfords.  Cap toe or plain toe.  That is all.  If you want to be dandy, get opera pumps.

post #28271 of 33197
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Originally Posted by 12345Michael54321 View Post

Love her. Honor her. Cherish her.

But don't let her dress you. Her understanding of which shoes to wear with a tuxedo is... imperfect.

Good answer.

Like it or not we have to accept that a wedding day is largely, but not completely, about the bride. But that doesn't mean you have to hand over your balls along with your input in how you dress on the day. Ask her what her thoughts would be if you chose how she dresses on the day.
post #28272 of 33197
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Originally Posted by benchusc View Post

I am having a MTM midnight blue, shawl collar tux for my wedding in two months. Shoes... my bride-to-be has me half convinced on these Mezlan shoes. "Daniele" line, glass suede (black suede with glassy beads throughout), as something I can wear formally and in the future for a variety of functions. http://shop.nordstrom.com/s/mezlan-daniele-cap-toe-derby/3318141?cm_cat=datafeed&cm_ite=mezlan_'daniele'_cap_toe_derby:564857&cm_pla=shoes:men:oxfords&cm_ven=Google_Product_Ads&mr:referralID=aa4d7c16-0ca6-11e4-b7d4-001b2166c62d&origin=pla Is this too much of a deviant from tradition?  Too UGLY? Any thoughts? (if it's worth anything, for better or worse, they're on sale by about 40% in the chicago mezlan store)

I made a slight edit in your post.

Why oh why do soon to be grooms take this sort of input from soon to be brides?
post #28273 of 33197
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Originally Posted by ter1413 View Post

I made a slight edit in your post.

Why oh why do soon to be grooms take this sort of input from soon to be brides?

Thanks, all. I was largely expecting such verification of a bad idea. Trust me, I still have my balls...
post #28274 of 33197

What would you wear with this sportcoat in spring/summer? I'd be going with brown/white/blue patterned shirts, tieless, but can't think of much else that would work.

 

The coat is 70/30 linen/silk, billed as 'light blue' and up close consists of blue, light blue and tan flecks, although it really looks more 'slate-blue' or 'blue-grey', although I still think browns would bring out the blue-ness of it. I'm thinking navy pants (I know, I know - but w/ no tie, so I believe it works), cream or khakis, chocolate brown loafers, and brown (but not deep, autumn-winter brown) patterned shirts. 

 

Of course, this raises the question of whether mid-browns as accent colors (ties, PS's, and in my case - since I'm usually tieless - shirts [mid-brown stripes, blue/brown stripes, tan ginghams, blue/brown ginghams...]) are appropriate in the spring/summer.

 

I asked a similar question about a dark brown sportcoat (in linen) in summer, and received mixed replies - but mostly saying fuck it, why not, the fabric is right, wear it. However, I still just can't get over dark SC's in S/S seeming off to me (I don't even go as dark as navy in jackets) so I abandoned that. But as accents, though...

 

Any and all thoughts greatly appreciated.

 

post #28275 of 33197
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Any and all thoughts greatly appreciated.

You seem really uptight, man. I want to buy you a drink and convince you to stop overthinking this sh*t.

Everything you're contemplating would work great, except maybe the navy trousers.
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