Not sure if you still check this thread, months later. I noticed it because I'm from Winnipeg too, except I *am* gay. Although I've never been into the stereotypical gay dress, either the fetishizing of Abercrombie & Fitch (which may be worn by American jocks, but is a completely gay fantasy style) or the tucked in shirts and shiny dress shoes. (I prefer either rugged casual -- slightly distressed jeans, plain t-shirt, and Converse sneakers -- or something a bit more old-fashioned dandy/hipster/vintage/indie -- simple cardigans, gingham shirts, fitted plaid, all-around minimal stuff.) Do you have any examples of what your dress looks like (pictures?) that gets you all the gay comments?