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I broke up with my gf and then she tried to kill herself

post #1 of 40
9/1/08 at 1:48am
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Yeah so now what do I do; all our mutual friends just expect me to get back together with her and even some of my boys who were happy we split are making me feel guilty about it. I feel bad and all but I don't think it would set a good example. She did do it the "right way", her friend just happened to stop by her place after work. Idk if the fact that she really wanted to die (vs cry for attention) is a good thing or bad but it is sorta flattering that someone can't live without you. Its like if I do take her back, I'll be walking on eggshells.
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post #2 of 40
9/1/08 at 1:56am
That happened to me in college, though I don't think it was an earnest attempt. You can't get back together with her. She needs to be under a doctor's care.
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post #3 of 40
9/1/08 at 2:08am
wow. Can't take back. Suggest you distance yourself as much as possible. Perhaps call her a counselor or something...
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post #4 of 40
9/1/08 at 2:10am
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Yeah so now what do I do; all our mutual friends just expect me to get back together with her and even some of my boys who were happy we split are making me feel guilty about it. I feel bad and all but I don't think it would set a good example. She did do it the "right way", her friend just happened to stop by her place after work.

Idk if the fact that she really wanted to die (vs cry for attention) is a good thing or bad but it is sorta flattering that someone can't live without you. Its like if I do take her back, I'll be walking on eggshells.
Let them lil guys know that

MODAGG DON'T ROLL LIKE DAT!

It was a cry for attention. Your currency for women is attention.
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post #5 of 40
9/1/08 at 2:18am
If she did it right she'd be dead.
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post #6 of 40
9/1/08 at 2:53am
All the more reason to stay away, imo. Best thing to do is tell someone who cares and emotionally connected to her, like a parent- then move on.
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post #7 of 40
9/1/08 at 2:55am
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wow. Can't take back. Suggest you distance yourself as much as possible. Perhaps call her a counselor or something...

Yep. Stay away and let her friends and family take care of her.
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post #8 of 40
9/1/08 at 4:12am
I tend to avoid girls like that. What good can come out of getting back with her? She'll probably seriously fuck you up. Just make sure she sees a psychiatrist.
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post #9 of 40
9/1/08 at 4:38am
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I tend to avoid girls like that. What good can come out of getting back with her? She'll probably seriously fuck you up. Just make sure she sees a psychiatrist.

you dont get with them knowing theyre like that, and many times they themselves dont even know theyre like that until a situation like that comes up. ive had to deal with something like that, and its hard because you do care about them, but at the same time you want the relationship to end. either way i tried to talk to the person about it, because in the end you dont want anything bad to happen reguardless if youre with them or not.
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post #10 of 40
9/1/08 at 4:55am
Head for the hills... And whatever you do don't let her take advantage and ruin your friendships you have in the same social circle. Take charge of the situation, and don't give her the advantage of robbing your friends along with your dignity. You should not be thought of negatively in this situation, act accordingly.
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post #11 of 40
9/1/08 at 5:05am
It is not your job to take care of her...if she did it to get your attention (and she probably did ) then you are playing right into her hands. She clearly has a personality disorder and you are leaving yourself wide open to becoming a stalking victim-don't kid yourself: men get stalked too. Let this picture inspire you to have absolutely no contact with her:




run, run, RUN as fast as you can...better to have people think you are a douchebag than have your live controlled by a crazy bitch. Do not call, e-mail or send flowers. RUN!
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post #12 of 40
9/1/08 at 5:14am
I think someone needs some dating advice.
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post #13 of 40
9/1/08 at 9:45am
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I think someone needs some dating advice.

I thought this was apt:

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Originally Posted by TyCooN View Post

MODAGG DON'T ROLL LIKE DAT!
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post #14 of 40
9/1/08 at 9:56am
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Idk if the fact that she really wanted to die (vs cry for attention) is a good thing or bad but it is sorta flattering that someone can't live without you.

Um. Listen to yourself, buddy. That's a seriously fucked up thing to say. Someone just tried to kill themself and you're...flattered?? No. Not an appropriate response.

Get this girl some help, do not get back together with her, but help her find a good psychiatrist before you peace out and let her deal with her issues.
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post #15 of 40
9/1/08 at 10:30am
wow sorry to hear this. you cannot get back together with her under ANY CIRCUMSTANCES and i would limit one on one communication for a little while - you need to get her friends to help with this. i cant believe anyone is giving you a guilt trip here unless im missing something
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