Thanks to both Spencer and Brad. We're both in college, and tight on money at times, so cooking at home would be a good plan. She's a GREAT cook too! If I was a douche bag, I don't think I'd be having this problem right now, I would have just moved on right away. The fact is, everything about her is the perfect fit for me, expect the weight issue. There may also be other issues complicating the sex that I didn't take into account. Condoms, for one (didn't need one with the old GF) and another minor physical difference in her vs. the old GF. She's got her positives though too, I just need to focus on those. Above all, she's smart, well-traveled, motivated in general, a great cook, organized like me, has good taste in material things, supportive family and friends, and is adventurous. I've yet to meet another girl her age with the same traits.