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winston 
Whenever I've carried a bag like that I've felt less than dignified, and I've thought the same when looking at other people.
Agreed; hence, my comment that messengers are better suited to casual wear.
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Originally Posted by
winston 
I see no reason why observing that an item of clothing or accessory makes the wearer take on a feminine quality is something to be wary of.
I didn't explain my self very well. I'll try and be succinct. Our ideas about what construes a "masculine" or "feminine" look can be culturally- and/or socially-influenced. For example, from my perspective, there is nothing the least bit "feminine" about slinging a bag on your shoulder, whether it's a duffel, messenger bag, or brief case with a strap. If that bag was designed as a woman's handbag, then one might possibly say that it looked "feminizing", but assuming that it was a gender-neutral bag, then this is a bit of stretch IMO.
Another question I have for you is: Assuming that the look is slightly "feminizing", why would this be bad? Why is this a negative thing? Why does it bother you?