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post #16 of 47
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Originally Posted by The Wayfarer View Post
Am I the only one grated by the insistent use of "unsecure?"

Dude, it's insecure.

I know... I know... In my work, the prof jargon we use is "unsecure", just like I use "vice" a lot instead of "instead."
post #17 of 47
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Originally Posted by Laffertron View Post
Another possibility: The guy is just some douche who's been trying to get in her pants for ages and just hangs around as a friend.

Girl meets douche for a coffee or something
"Hi Douche"
"Hey baby *muah* wassup?"
"Oh yeah I met this guy at work today!"
"Oh really?" (secretly thinking "Oh man this idiot is going to ruin my action with this girl I haven't even kissed but am meant to be with!")
"Excuse me for a minute while I go to the girl's room"
*Douche looks at her phone while she's in the john*

2 hours later...

WTF MAN I'M GONNA KILL U

I'd call the girl up and explain what happened, if she says she's single chances are this loser is some creep who hangs around trying to land her, while he tries to push away any guy who seems threatening. I've had it happen to me, the dude was totally insecure and "best friends" with this girl who was totally not interested in him. I think he learned a hard lesson the night I met her.

Long story short, this chap needs some advice:

http://youtube.com/watch?v=mh6pZQX22CQ

This is a good possibility, except, he called me while she was with me and later was calling me her from her cell.
post #18 of 47
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Originally Posted by contactme_11 View Post
Then you'll just be saving yourself a lot of aggrevasion by getting out now. You're not attached to her yet and for all you know this guy is 10 times bigger than you and could twist you into a pretzel when he gets angry.

She is pretty hot, so, I really don't want to get out. Arrgh! Trust me, in this poop-hole that I'm not now, if you meet a hot girl, you better be doing everything to hold on.

Anyway, the dude sounds pretty umm... douchey I'd say. Each time he'd yell, his voice would get really high, if you know what I mean?
post #19 of 47
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Originally Posted by countdemoney View Post
Get out.

Girls who like the controlling types are usually a piece of work. If she's not strong enough to break up on her own, you aren't going to want to deal with her drama.

Feel free to hook up with her, but don't get emotionally involved.

+10000000000000
post #20 of 47
Don't be stupid.
post #21 of 47
I see basically two options:

1) Fuck her then tell her the guy is making things weird and never talk to her again.

2) Tell her the guy is making things weird and never talk to her again.

#1 is more fun but carries loads more risk.
post #22 of 47
post pics and well tell you if its worth it!
post #23 of 47
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Originally Posted by herzzreh View Post
I know... I know... In my work, the prof jargon we use is "unsecure", just like I use "vice" a lot instead of "instead."

Use instead instead.
post #24 of 47
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Originally Posted by Piobaire View Post
I see basically two options:

1) Fuck her then tell her the guy is making things weird and never talk to her again.

2) Tell her the guy is making things weird and never talk to her again.

#1 is more fun but carries loads more risk.

Ya. What kinda of psycho calls you on your phone. Some girls like drama. For all the OP knows, he could fuck her, she could tell her bf or ex just to spite him, and then he gets himself stabbed in a fit of rage.
post #25 of 47
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post #26 of 47
I would ask her straight up to see if she is really single or not. Let her know that you got the call from this guy. If she still says she is single then she likes you and take her answer because he may just be her ex and trying to get her back.


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Originally Posted by herzzreh View Post
I meet this girl, call her up, we go for a dinner, then grab a few drinks... She says she's single. When we're in the bar, someone keeps calling and calling me. I walk her to a tanning place, say bye and listen to the voicemail. Lo and behold, I get the following message: "WTF are you doing taking my GF for drinks? yada yada yada"
Bit later, I call her to find out WTF. No one answers, bit later that dude calls me, asks me WTF I was going with his girl etc. I just tell the guy that we had a few drinks and had a little chat. He starts bitching at me. I tell him that it's pretty sad that he's so insecure. He asks me what do I mean? I tell him that he's insecure because he freaks out so bad about me going with his girl for a few drinks. This kinda shut him up, all he said "Well, man, you know... I just don't know you."

So... What do I do? Do I stay away from her? Press on?
post #27 of 47
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post #28 of 47
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Originally Posted by West24 View Post
post pics and well tell you if its worth it!

this should be required before anymore suggestions are made

I would also find out how big the dude is and make sure he isn't some MMA fighter. That way if you see him you know you can either beat the shit out of him or you know that you have to run really fast!!!
post #29 of 47
You don't need to be a part of whatever she has going on.

If she is still with the guy, then she lied.

If it's an ex, who needs to deal with the hassle.

If it's a stalker, make sure you have your will in order.

All that said, if she is smokin' hot (pics definitely needed), ignore me.
post #30 of 47
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Originally Posted by Laffertron View Post
Another possibility: The guy is just some douche who's been trying to get in her pants for ages and just hangs around as a friend.

Girl meets douche for a coffee or something
"Hi Douche"
"Hey baby *muah* wassup?"
"Oh yeah I met this guy at work today!"
"Oh really?" (secretly thinking "Oh man this idiot is going to ruin my action with this girl I haven't even kissed but am meant to be with!")
"Excuse me for a minute while I go to the girl's room"
*Douche looks at her phone while she's in the john*

2 hours later...

WTF MAN I'M GONNA KILL U

I'd call the girl up and explain what happened, if she says she's single chances are this loser is some creep who hangs around trying to land her, while he tries to push away any guy who seems threatening. I've had it happen to me, the dude was totally insecure and "best friends" with this girl who was totally not interested in him. I think he learned a hard lesson the night I met her.

Long story short, this chap needs some advice:

http://youtube.com/watch?v=mh6pZQX22CQ

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Originally Posted by MilanoStyle View Post
I would ask her straight up to see if she is really single or not. Let her know that you got the call from this guy. If she still says she is single then she likes you and take her answer because he may just be her ex and trying to get her back.

I spoke to her. This is exactly what the case is. It's some fool she was friends with who thought it was more, then they did have a short fling. He's got all of the PINs to her voicemail and can access her cell account. I told her to change 'em like now. Turns out he didn't call from her cell phone, he just spoofed the caller ID. She said she doesn't want anything to do with him. So, I think I'm safe to proceed further.
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