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post #16 of 28
5/1/08 at 11:12am
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Originally Posted by Mike Lowry View Post
I know deep down I shouldn't but she seems like an awesome fit for me (I'm a bit picky so thats big) and she is super hot. Any suggestions?

How do you know she is "super hot"? By the pictures she sent you? You have not even met his girl in real life yet.

STAY AWAY.
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post #17 of 28
5/1/08 at 11:19am
Basically I feel you still don't know how to interact with girls. You shouldn't be the "nice guy" because the "nice guy" just stands for insecure person who has no game who any girl can walk all over because he is weak. You need to not think she is at a higher level than you and you should do anything for her, this is the wrong way to think and it will get you no where. You should make yourself interesting so they want to go out with you, you shouldn't pay too much attention to them early on, otherwise it is just too easy for them and they will lose interest. You need to learn how to get a girl, what you are doing, classifying yourself as a "nice guy" is trying to value the girl higher than yourself, which is going to leave you no where. This is my advice to you, learn it, and experience it, or you are going to just keep blaming your insecurities and lack of game on being a "nice guy"
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post #18 of 28
5/1/08 at 2:13pm
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Originally Posted by Fade to Black View Post
There's occasionally some stories with happy endings with dating sites, but in general i'm wary of those. I'm even more wary of finding a female companion on a message board...i am already not very accepting of the idea of real life gatherings based on forum friendships as it is, let alone romance.

I met my girlfriend on a message board.

We're celebrating our two year anniversary this month.
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post #19 of 28
5/1/08 at 11:33pm
Cut your losses. Learn from this experience stand up and do what constant struggle says. It may have sounded a bit harsh but he knows what he's talking about, I had to learn that the hard way.
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post #20 of 28
5/2/08 at 9:48am
Forget about it and move on.
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post #21 of 28
5/2/08 at 5:38pm
shes a pig who sent you fake pics, forget it

dl
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post #22 of 28
5/2/08 at 6:05pm
yea thats most likely it.^seriously.
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post #23 of 28
5/5/08 at 12:35am
People are fickle, but just because they are playing games doesn't mean you should.

Just do want you want to do (in this case delete her number) and if things workout then they work out.

I get sick of people saying "should i call her?" because if you want to, then do it, if the reaction isn't whatyour after, then they are not the person for you anways so don't stress.

The issue with the internet is people are not always as they seem, but this also goes for clubs and bars. the amount of times I've met great people, then when you actualy get the chance to really sit down and talk to them, you realise there is nothing there. my point is, dateing is a hazard, online or otherwise.
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post #24 of 28
5/5/08 at 8:33am
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Originally Posted by Uncontrol View Post
I met my girlfriend on a message board.

We're celebrating our two year anniversary this month.

Congrats! Best of luck for both of you.
Sounds cool. I've heard people met their 'soulmate' on a message board.

I still don't understand how they can be sure that they meet their 'true' one?!.
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post #25 of 28
5/5/08 at 8:43am
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Originally Posted by X-It View Post
Congrats! Best of luck for both of you.
Sounds cool. I've heard people met their 'soulmate' on a message board.

I still don't understand how they can be sure that they meet their 'true' one?!.

There's no such thing.

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Originally Posted by Mike Lowry View Post

I know deep down I shouldn't but she seems like an awesome fit for me (I'm a bit picky so thats big) and she is super hot. Any suggestions?

I would suggest: 1.) Whatever pictures she sent you, aren't her. 2.) It's possible that, a.) "she" isn't a she; b.) "she" may not be of age.

And 3.) No matter what, regarding those points, she is not who she pretends to be in some way, hence her obvious refusal to meet. So walk away, dude.
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post #26 of 28
5/7/08 at 2:58am
You have got a serious problem of being waaaaaay too impatient and it will come off as desperate and clingy. This is just the beginning of your problems here, but it's a good place to start.
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post #27 of 28
5/7/08 at 9:11am
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Originally Posted by dl20 View Post
shes a pig who sent you fake pics, forget it

dl

This about sums it up right here. Here is a huge tip for anyone that is into online dating: Chicks, even not so pretty ones, get hit on or flirted with about 10 times a day. They are not going to pass up all these opportunities only to come online to find the perfect match. If you want to meet chicks online hit up myspace and say you are just looking for friends.
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post #28 of 28
5/7/08 at 10:59am
that shit is too time consuming and too many girls have too many issues. Just hit up your local whorehouse, DONE.
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