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post #196 of 254
I dont think such a high number is impossible, especially for a female, who if she is fair looking can have a man of her choosing..... hopefully not telling him about the hundreds of previous men shes had..

I have a freind who is in his early thirties, and from what I can tell he is on par with this girl. He has a misstress(Girlfreind) every week. Real casanova meets porno star.... Last year I counted roughly 35 to 50 broken hearts....and thats just the I know of.

Funny thing is his latest GF, she is a professional escort girl..... and he asked me if I thought it was OK, and If I would have a problem with it if my GF was an escort.

My answer....... No two men a created equall, why would it be a problem FOR YOU???..... - he didnt understand my responce, maybe because he actually doesnt think its imorall to sleep with all your office coleagues....
post #197 of 254
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I always thought all lawyers were filled with a lot of common sense until now.


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The reason for un protected sex was:
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Funny you ask, apparently she got off birth control about 3 months ago, because it dampened her sex drive! That was the first thing I asked him when he told me about the lack of protection.
Yeah, "your friend" just made some great choices.

Are you sure that this isn't the "friend" that people ask about as a hypothetical in order not to have to admit embarassingly that they're asking about themselves?
post #198 of 254
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Yeah, "your friend" just made some great choices.

Are you sure that this isn't the "friend" that people ask about as a hypothetical in order not to have to admit embarassingly that they're asking about themselves?

<insert "Analyze This" poster>
post #199 of 254
By the amount she quoted, it seems apparent she has never had the benefit or experience of a long term trusting relationship and probably cheated many times over if she had been in one. I doubt highly her ability to conduct herself in a functional way as the relationship progresses. She doesn't seem like someone who is commited to a stable relationship and beyond high school, there are a lot of other issues besides sex.

I'd forget about going steadfast with her as it will leave you with lots of pain and misery in the long run, no matter how tempting the initial phase is. I can almost guarantee she will be gangbanging in your future home after marriage when you are away for a business trip, while your biological 3 year old son is learning numbers by counting the number of dicks in the room.

If you are just in it for the sex, no strings attached, by all means indulge. Protection seems a no brainer, with someone who has had that many partners as her.

On the point of friendship though, I really think that one is venturing into dangerous territories giving advice to friends. It's his life, let him make his own decision and learn his lesson. Every decision you make him sway towards is a potential sorespot for him to blame you later in life if he has to live with regret and bitterness on your suggestion.
post #200 of 254
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while your biological 3 year old son is learning numbers by counting the number of dicks in the room.


the way this line is written, the imagery = brilliant.
post #201 of 254
I'm amazed at just how far people will reach to draw conclusions, positive or negative, with such strong conviction given a very minimal set of data (ie, 1 number).
post #202 of 254
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1) I believe what Matt (and I) are opposing is the characterization of someone as garbage due to their number of partners, as exemplified by the bolded part of your text.

No, I never characterized her as garbage and that's exactly why I worded my statement as I did.
post #203 of 254
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No, I never characterized her as garbage and that's exactly why I worded my statement as I did.
Well, what would constitute a dough nut garbage? Does it matter what it has touched in the can? Does it matter, the depth it has settled within the can? What if the liner is clean? How about the intent of the disposer? I suppose the criteria will depend on the person conceiving of and perceiving said dough nut, but how much can one meaningfully stray from the norms of common sense without reaching absurdity?
post #204 of 254
jeez, in the hundreds? that's strangely attractive to me. i still wouldnt touch that with a ten foot pole...
post #205 of 254
I was with a girl who got mad at me and screwed everyone in the fraternity that I hang out with (I'm not in it but my best friends are) that would have sex with her. They came up to me and told me she was trying to so I told them to have fun that I didn't care about her. She ended up having some major psychological problems and had to leave school. Girls are much more fragile usually sexually even if they will never admit it. A girl with that many has major major psychological problems and needs great help.
post #206 of 254
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Well, what would constitute a dough nut garbage? Does it matter what it has touched in the can? Does it matter, the depth it has settled within the can? What if the liner is clean? How about the intent of the disposer? I suppose the criteria will depend on the person conceiving of and perceiving said dough nut, but how much can one meaningfully stray from the norms of common sense without reaching absurdity?
"Adjacent to refuse, is refuse." I consider most people filthy, hence someone who has had sex with hundreds of people has probably been "through the filth". This doesn't mean she is a filthy or bad person, but it's there to think about. I wasn't trying to argue a side, I just think a sweeping generalization of everyone that thought sleeping with hundreds and hundreds of people was a bad idea is poor form. I'm very sexually open but experience has shown me that nothing good rarely comes of sleeping with as many people as possible. That doesn't mean I'm repressed.
post #207 of 254
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jeez, in the hundreds? that's strangely attractive to me. i still wouldnt touch that with a ten foot pole...
I suspect you're exaggerating, but forgive me for not insisting on proof.
post #208 of 254
there are plenty of women out there who have only been with 70 or 80 guys. why waste your time with a trollop.
post #209 of 254
i had a friend who was dating a woman who'd been with around 100 guys and said his biggest lament was that there was literally nothing that could be a first for her. everything he asked her, she had tried or tried many times.
post #210 of 254
If you were around me I'd swear I knew the girl you were talking about. Last count she was around 400 and is only in her early 20's. I thought it was an exaggeration until she went out with some friends and I. She'd walk up to a guy, tap him on the shoulder, talk to him a couple minutes, and then they'd disappear for about 15 minutes. Then she'd walk down the bar and tap another guy on the shoulder; It was disgusting.

From my dealings with her I'm going to agree with the "something seriously messed up upstairs" statements and that's what he should really be worried about.
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